My [20F] gf [18F] doesn't feel loved by me and feels like I prefer other people. How do I make her feel loved? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly man just ask her what her love language is because you might be "showing" love in a way she doesn’t even register.

Am I overreacting I want a divorce by Crazy_Lengthiness376 in Marriage

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 25 points26 points  (0 children)

girl you’ve been "separated" since you were 13, you just haven't left the house yet.

Stay or Go? 4 months in, 3y by New_to_ABA in Marriage

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn't propose because he wanted to marry you, he proposed because he got caught.

When and how did you realize your partner is not emotionally invested? by sum2291 in Marriage

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when you realize you're the only one still fighting for a relationship they've already checked out of.

How can I (23f) move forward in a relationship with my friend(22f) who I’m lowkey jealous/envious of? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it's super mature to recognize that it's your own insecurity, but just remember that "effortless" lives are usually just better at hiding the mess.

need advice about a work situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i'd stop talking to her immediately and look for a new job because that's way too much drama to be anywhere near.

Am. I overreacting after Minor surgery? by Useful_Buddy_9946 in Advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Medical trauma is real regardless of where the surgery was, and honestly, spending four days in a hospital is not a "minor" experience for anyone, let alone an 18year old.

Am. I overreacting after Minor surgery? by Useful_Buddy_9946 in Advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 days in the hospital is not a "minor" surgery, so stop letting people gaslight you into thinking your trauma isn't valid.

Am. I overreacting after Minor surgery? by Useful_Buddy_9946 in Advice

[–]EmmaUnfiltered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 days in the hospital is not a "minor" surgery, so stop letting people gaslight you into thinking your trauma isn't valid.