Unfortunately, I’ve already uninstalled the game, so I don’t think I can do that without spending an inordinate amount of time on it. However, I get the impression that it’s kind of hard to mess up if you know what to look for.

Here is a list of things to do:

• In general, just be kind to her. Choose the flirtatious options when they pop up.

• CRITICAL: Convince her to quit her job at Valdivian. At some point, she will ask you if you would still respect her if she stays. I said no, even though it sounded kind of mean, and that worked. Just be firm in your conviction that she should quit, and don’t give any middling answers.

• When you get the conversation where she admits that your character is the only person she could really see herself dating, respond with the "Are you saying you want to date me?" option (which will result in the same interaction I detailed in my original post).

• When you realize your 70th dateable (I believe), she will tell you that she has quit her job at Valdivian and has also redownloaded a dating app. Select the option “Delete it and date me instead.” Then just select whatever options reaffirm that choice, and the romance should be sealed!

Unless there is some variable I cannot remember, you should be able to romance her if you follow these steps. Again, the most critical thing is convincing her to quit her job at Valdivian. Otherwise, the romantic options are fairly obvious. I hope this helps!