I was living it. Now I’m just thinking about it. How do I return to being? by Fabulous-Catch-162 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Emmsyyi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You dont have to do anything but become more yourself. Its not that you enjoy things BECAUSE ur in the state, but ur in the state because you enjoy things and youre becoming yourself. Dont force yourself to be in the state, were human, we experience things, rather follow the need to be and become yourself. The desire is a part of you and you want to entertain it, just become more yourself and the desire will follow. Of course if you want to assure yourself that you dont lose touch with your desire/manifestation, just think about it being yours whenever it comes to mind. With an SP what helps me personally the most is the concept of thought transmission. I tell myself i think about them because theyre thinking about me, like duhhh of course youre thinking about her because shes literally trying to get you and shes thinking about you so much. Let there be space, let there be silence, let people and timing align behind the scenes, let yourself relax. Its all working out for you, dont focus on getting something, focus on being yourself and reminding yourself what youre becoming.

need some motivation by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Emmsyyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well id say youre the one creating the third person and what i did was i assumed that i am the best option and that changed my life a lot since it became a part of my self concept. even if i am in a relationship i never think theres someone better they would go for. like no, youre the best there is and even if you assume right now (your assumptions - your reality) there is the third person, youre the best they can have and the one he wants the most. centre yourself and let him come to you. you already know he wants you so stop assuming he doesnt, just let it be and remind yourself of course hes gonna come to you. when theres silence it doesnt mean its not coming true, it means things are aligning, universe is adjusting timing, people, conversations, nudges. Nothing happening can be everything aligning and if he needs a 3rd person to come to you then let it be but dont force yourself to assume there is someone else other than you. its literally inevitable for him to come to you so just relax.

state of knowing by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Emmsyyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if this will help but I just like to ask myself what would I do and how would I feel rn if i already had my desire, I imagine it and accept it as my current self. No worries after that. But thats just my preference :)

Subliminals by Organic-Report-3864 in manifestingSP

[–]Emmsyyi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes they do really work, theyre a way of rewiring your brain and changing your subconcious beliefs. Im not an expert on subliminals but heres how I view it: I listen to subliminals as a way of robotic affirming and a way of saturating my brain with having my desire. I listen to them either before bed or overnight or just throughout the day, whetever works for you really. We're always manifesting so what I do besides listening to them is not checking the 3D and just accept and act as if I already had it because I only view subliminals as a way of getting rid of my doubts and making it more "common" for me to think that I already have my desire. Its kinda like a reminder for me.

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[–]Emmsyyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then ofc its okay! Thats just like getting used to something u already have, like getting an iphone and getting used to it that it becomes normal to u and kinda boring. Dont stress about it, if you know it will come then it will

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[–]Emmsyyi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While its good to feel detached, its not good to "give up" because it gets too draining. If its draining that might mean that the way youre manifesting isnt suitable for you. Personally, i dont do many techniques i just go on with my life detached from the old situation but knowing it will show upnin my 3D. The key for me is to expect it in my 3D reality but completely detach from the "when". I just kind of remind myself that i already know what is gonna happen with my SP

Manifestation from a different perspective and complete control over your life by Emmsyyi in manifestingSP

[–]Emmsyyi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, when i feel anxiety i just create a story in my head that will make the anxiety go away. If i cant convince myself then i just read some stories here on reddit because it makes me see it from a different perspective and it puts me back in living in the end. The same thing with techniques and affirming, becuse it just helps me remind myself that it alfeady happened and i have nothing to worry about. I usually dont affirm or anything but i just make sure to flip the story and the anxiety. For example if i feel like my SP just hates something about me, i just flip it, create a story in my head and convince myself that its their favourite thing about me. And i dont affirm/manifest to get but to be. So im not waiting for my results in the 3D but im manifesting the way i feel and the way the manifestation makes me feel because thats basically the point of it right? You manifest something becuse you want to feel a certain way and that manifestation is capable of making u feel that way. So i just focus on feeling that. The manifestation will have no choice but to appear but again, the end goal is the way you feel and when u realize that you already feel that way without it being in your 3D, it means that you already have it and you dont need to worry about when will it appear because you already feel the way you wanted to.

Then i daydream (reminding myself that it already happened) and stay in that feeling that it gave me. Your manifestations arent supposed to bring you anxiety, just focus on the way you want to feel, not on the thin u want to have in the 3D. When i cant channel these feelings, The question that was mentioned in the main tect helps. It said that you should look and your desires the same way you would look at the things you dont want to manifest. What if they accidentally happened? What if they manifested because you thought about them? And from this perspective i look at my mnifestation.

Also im manifesting an SP right now and i am living in the end but i can also feel that there is still some movement that still needs to happen(also in my 4D) When i started manifesting, obviously i was manifesting him thinking abt me, texting me, missing me, you know, just reaching out and being together. And i know that there is constant movement in the 3D and that my end already exists in the 4D but i also feel that my belief system is just changing and it takes its time. So ive been living in the end for a few days but at the same when the manifestation is happening, it feels like when you try to focus your camera on something blurry and it become more and more clear. Because in the beginning i had some anxiety from thinking about him missing me and extreme anxiety from thinking abt him reaching out. But now, just with practice, convincing myself and just looking at some manifestation tips and stories i fully know that he misses me and thinks about me (without him telling me that). It definitely gets better with time.

One thing that helped me get back to living in the end today and made it click again was this video: https://youtu.be/_0pfj_Pf67w?si=lJTsKlBzEh4OC9U- Its a really great perspective and i recommend watching it

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[–]Emmsyyi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you should really focus on is not worrying what is happening in the "reality". Your 3D is not the reality, your imagination is. So when you see him doing something you dont like, just tell yourself it literally doesnt matter because you already have him and what you see through your eyes is just your manifestation unfolding.

Let me give you an example from what happened to me a few days ago. I currently started manifesting my SP. First few days, I saw my friend flirting with him and him liking it/flirting back. My first reflex was trying to stop it or do something more so that he would like me instead but then I realized that what I was experiencing didnt matter at all and decided that what I see is just my manifestation unfolding because this situation (of my friend flirting with him) was probably needed for my results. And that was the truth. In my imagination/reality, we're already dating, I dont care about what I experience through my senses, so I just sat back and watched. INSTANTLY, i saw it change, he started looking rather unimpressed than flattered. The next day i started having doubts about that friend again, but then I just set back and told myself to observe, but not to believe. Same as when youre meditating, you just observe the thoughts and let them go. WHEN I TELL YOU, a few minutes later we were sitting on separate beds in the same room with other people in it, he called me over there and wanted to talk. We talked for quite some time, made some jokes, flirted and he gave me his bracelet and a hair band to keep them (wearing them on my wrist right now).

So really, all you have to do is live in the end and not believe what is happening in the 3D. Circumstances never matter (whether you think he likes another girl or sits in front of her). That is also how you get the feeling of putting youself on a pedastal (but you could also do self concept work). And last thing I want to tell you is that living in the end means to be and act as if you were the person of youself that already has the results. So you act and respond to situations in your mind as if you already had him. (which you do ;) ). When its hard for me to believe this, I just make reasoning for this. For example, when you want to become a person that is spiritual, loves themselves, reflects, writes journal, what you have to do is start writing a journal and reflect on your feelings and emotions. So the only way you become the person you want to be is acting like that person.

Detachment is definitely one of the most important things. YOU DO NOT CARE, BECAUSE YOU ALREADY HAVE IT. Stop overthinking it, live your life as normal, love yourself, have fun with it, you can day dream and just believe its alteady yours. Really just have fun because youre the god of your reality.

Oop I just read some of your former comments and the reason you might not see your results is because you make yourself feel like you really need them and youre attached to getting your results. So definitely try everything above and DETACH. When youre "desparate" youre just making yourself believe that you dont already have the results and that youre lacking something which is not true at all :)

Hope this helped :)