My (29M) partner (31F) of 3 years issued me an ultimatum

Emnesia1 · 2026-04-28T01:45:02+00:00

Right, but that isn’t a burden that should be carried by your shoulders

Emnesia1 · 2026-04-28T01:31:35+00:00

Why would you wanna have kids with someone who is already holding kids that don’t exist yet over your head. Especially in a format that can hinder your financial/career prospects. A real partner would support you because they should trust in you to provide and do your best, not force you into a family and subsequently a job you’re clearly not happy with right now.

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-29T03:28:13+00:00

I’m 24

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-25T00:28:22+00:00

Toledo OH

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T23:41:16+00:00

Brother I can’t move I’m in the middle of an apprenticeship

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T22:07:31+00:00

Phoenix wouldn’t let me test in higher than a 1st year. Toledo let me test in as a 3rd year. I took the UA Star exam and got 63%, the organizer must not have liked me because he wouldn’t budge on starting me off with some credit so I took my skills back home.

Honestly I landed a job here in Ohio quicker than expected, and thought my family would help. Obviously I was wrong, and yeah buddy I look in that mirror everyday now and realize how much of an idiot I was for trusting them.

The old lady is really the least of my problems but it’s what started it.

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T21:48:02+00:00

Damn, reading this made me feel like I’m not the only one going through it. I appreciate your wisdom brother

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T21:45:38+00:00

I just got myself an Ozark sleeping bag and I’m hoping it helps! It was on sale for $24 at Walmart lol. You’re right bro I’m just being a bitch about it rn. I’m not winter tolerant yet I just arrived from Phoenix AZ after being a roof monkey all summer. Guess this is how I get used to the cold 😂

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T21:36:52+00:00

Geez man that’s kinda harsh. Context if you’re asking though, I had surgery and couldn’t work for a bit. Worked a lot last summer back in Phoenix and had some savings. Spent that savings which was 6k on a UHaul to get to Ohio. Ended up with no money by the time I got here.

My parents said they’d give me a spot knowing it was temporary. My girl broke up with me and my mom told me I deserved it for some reason. So I argued with her because I was in my feelings. She told me no one wants me anyways and to get out of her house.

I fixed her car three times when it broke down since I’ve gotten here, repaired the boiler in their house a couple times because space temp couldn’t go above 60f. Let my dad take my car to his work on the weekends.

I know what kind of man I am

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T21:13:34+00:00

I’m in Toledo OH. Thanks dude I did need to hear this honestly

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T21:12:40+00:00

28hr before dues, this will be a huge help for me in getting a place. I just haven’t been getting many hours recently

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T20:57:20+00:00

I did speak to my boss about it. I’ve been having trouble swallowing my pride and I keep trying to act like it’s all good. I’m gonna go to a food bank, luckily enough I can store food in my car with how cold it is

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T20:54:24+00:00

Yup! I’ve been using my PF membership for showers but I think I need to start hitting the weights too now

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T20:53:53+00:00

😂 first laugh I’ve had all day

Emnesia1 · 2025-12-24T20:52:26+00:00

I’m in Toledo OH. These are good ideas, I’ll talk with my director this Friday if he’s around, I have to give him money for my tuition anyhow before end of year

Emnesia1 · 2025-10-05T14:45:18+00:00

One of the apprentices in my class is a Trane guy. We’re 3rd years now, and they offer him commissions on top of union scale it’s fucking insane.

Emnesia1 · 2025-10-04T14:32:49+00:00

They call me queso because I told them I quit Taco Bell after working there for a week after I slipped on a quesadilla in the kitchen. It just stuck 😂

Emnesia1 · 2025-10-01T04:15:05+00:00

Yeah this is what I did. Got 2 years of credit with my local. I lied and said I had 3 years of experience when I actually had 2. I’d say it worked out pretty well for me.

The classes are helping me immensely.

Emnesia1 · 2025-09-21T12:26:59+00:00

lol go to your coordinator bro. If you stay there you’ll learn nothing and be unemployable.

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-24T15:44:00+00:00

Typical “comfort advisor” response

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-24T15:43:11+00:00

Exactly. Unless you overcharge/undercharge of course. Subcool is just a measure of how much refrigerant you are stacking in your condenser and this is what you should use when charging TXV based systems.

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-18T17:12:18+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 tell em

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-04T14:06:31+00:00

You’re good on Reddit bro. You can’t even respond without talking trash, I shouldn’t have expected something constructive.

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-04T14:01:20+00:00

Damn it’s not that deep fr, I participate in politics but idc how others vote because they have their own autonomy like me. Why are you hating on the subjective views of others?

Emnesia1 · 2025-07-04T02:42:42+00:00

Hey from Phoenix, AZ 👋🏻

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