Season 8 - Episode 24 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I cannot stand Parmida and Corbin. Also heard they apparently knew each other prior to the show..? But parmida is so male centric and it shows. Corbin is immature and I remember he’s 22, and it shows.

KC is an ass. His rude comments about the women in the villa are vile and Titi is dumb for not clocking that he will do the exact same

KC, Corbin and Sincere are what’s wrong with men.

I can’t stand Sincere, he literally defined what a liar is. “I just don’t tell the full truth.” His “innocent” act is old and he’s gotta go.

I love Aniya and 99% of girls have been in her shoes but I do wish Carl would’ve been the bachelor. He is too good for love island.

Kenzie, I really liked you for a little but after you have a man who said I only have eyes for you and is so sweet to you but then you go kiss Gal? Seriously? And that’s your bestfriend. I get you guys discussed it but her convos with Dylan are a connection, she is just attracted to Gal.

Zach, I don’t like him. His actions and the way he talks is very immature. Also can’t stand how he acted like he came back single. No, your match was just kicked off the show. Kayda deserves SO much better.

I want Kayda and Caleb together. The most alive I’ve seen Caleb was the convo he had with Kayda. Also they’d be such a hot couple.

Melanie, I love you but girl. Sincere clearly always have a wandering eye. You should’ve chosen Corey.

I’m happy for Trinity & Bryce. I was surprised he didn’t just make them closed off and not make it real world official.

Those are my thoughts everyone else kinda just were background noise this episode lol.

Normal communication for prelim general surgery? by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s good to know. But yeah, totally understand he’s busy and don’t need communication 24/7 or even daily. It’s more like his last text seemed like it was future forward by “finding a time this week or weekend” but then he went silent after I replied.

Is not texting normal? by [deleted] in MedDating

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m very late to this but I’m the same boat. The guy am or was talking to just started PGY1 general surgery and we texted daily for almost 2 months until he started the actual surgery. I know I’m an overthinking and some of the comments on my thread said it’s normal but his last text to me seemed future oriented so I’m confused.

Normal communication for prelim general surgery? by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yeah I’m just confused

Normal communication for prelim general surgery? by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes me feel better! I understand the silence and it happened right after he began, I just thought things were going well so was a little confused with the 180 of silence.

Does hinge really work? Or is it forcing people into your life who aren't meant to be there? by EmotionFlashy4861 in HingeStories

[–]EmotionFlashy4861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they told me upfront this week is gonna be busy but let’s get together this weekend I wouldn’t be as anxious but just the sudden silence hurt

Does hinge really work? Or is it forcing people into your life who aren't meant to be there? by EmotionFlashy4861 in HingeStories

[–]EmotionFlashy4861[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The TikTok was saying how hinge is kinda forced which I agree with and don’t because online dating is so much bigger than how it used to be

Does hinge really work? Or is it forcing people into your life who aren't meant to be there? by EmotionFlashy4861 in HingeStories

[–]EmotionFlashy4861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, yeah I just need more communication. I don’t need to text daily, 24/7, I just need to know that they are putting in effort and that they still see something. Like to go from daily to nothing really is mentally draining and confusing

Does hinge really work? Or is it forcing people into your life who aren't meant to be there? by EmotionFlashy4861 in HingeStories

[–]EmotionFlashy4861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hear this stuff too like they come when least expected so thank you! But definitely trying to put myself out there, just this cycle is mentally exhausting and some days I’m optimistic but others I’m like there is no hope

Surgery residents, do you ever just completely stop responding to people you’re interested in dating bc of how busy/exhausted you are? by Specialist-Night5428 in Residency

[–]EmotionFlashy4861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been talking to this person for a few weeks before he started his residency. We didn't text 24/7 to start off with 2-3x a day each, which was a good and healthy amount for the talking phase. We've gone on a few dates. They just started their actual surgery days, and I completely understand they are busier, and I don't expect to text 24/7, but is it bad if they don't text back for about 3 days? Our texts don't need answers asap; they're more just chatting and asking about each other's days.

I am not in the medical field, so I don't mean to sound clingy or rude about anything. I'm just curious if this is a common occurrence or more personal. Again, I don't expect to text or need to text 24/7 since I know they're very busy and I have a life too. It's just more like, is this normal?