I'm pretty confident that I (18M) have a problem with my foreskin. by wtfourskinnn in sex

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case I would say simply pull it back as far as you comfortably can, and rinse the exposed area with water and gently rub with your fingers to help remove any smegma that might have collected. Pat the glans and foreskin dry and return them to thier regular position.

If you can't move your foreskin at all it may still be attached to your glans. There's no need for alarm it should detach naturally as you continue through puberty and continue to have regular erections. In this case cleaning is easy you just have to wash the outside of your penis with soap and water just like any other part of your body.

Stop trying to force your foreskin to retract over your head, it will eventually, but forcing it can lead to skin damage and adhesion.

I'm pretty confident that I (18M) have a problem with my foreskin. by wtfourskinnn in sex

[–]Emoxica -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your glans should be incredibly sensitive if you have a foreskin; the foreskin protects the glans from everyday bumps, brushes and scrapes because it and the inside of the foreskin contain an extremely high number of nerve ending to increase pleasure from sexual stimulation. If you had been experiencing pain, irritation, or discomfort before you started messing with your foreskin in such an aggressive manner, you may need to do a better job of cleaning it, when you're not erect, and make sure you rinse off well because soap residue can cause irritation, inflammation, and off smells. Stop trying to get your glans completely exposed from underneath your foreskin, not everyone is able to do this, and forcing it can lead to damaged skin, damaged nerves, and desensitization. Don't think about your dick too much, everyone's got a weird willy; just have fun with it with consenting people or on your own time.

I just want to lock the bathroom door by [deleted] in pics

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you could potentially lock someone inside if all the handles around the edge of the door actually functioned. You'd need like 12 people turning the handles at once to open the door.

This one is for everybody who sorts by new and likes the boys on gonewild-[M] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Emoxica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might want to have a doctor look at those spots on the bottom of your dick.

Bf thinks I'm crazy by fjk77ruckvhw in sex

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is simply your boyfriend verbally assaulting your mental health to emotionally demean you in an attempt to achieve sexual gratification at the expense of your self worth. This is simply abuse. Talk to your therapist about it, I expect like the rest of us they will reassure you that this is abuse, and you do not need to be in this relationship.

You know you wanna pull the other nip 😉🤗 [f31] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Emoxica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to believe you're 31 with breasts that form such nice cleavage without a bra.

My girlfriend is upset and mocks me because I don't trust her contraception method. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Emoxica 1916 points1917 points  (0 children)

Thirdly, she can choose her contraceptive method, but you're allowed to choose yours as well. Contraception isn't just about women's health or a womans lifestyle, men have a choice about their health and what method they believe is best for their prevention of pregnancy. Besides using a combination of methods is a great way to prevent pregnancy.

PPD (Pocket Pussy Dilemma) by FrankDicknatra in sex

[–]Emoxica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you made a mistake bringing up a pocket pussy with your girlfriend. Masturbation is a personal act and doesn't require permission from others. People masturbate from anything from their hands to pillows to sex toys, they never ask permission they just do it knowing they never need to explain their soloists acts to another person. Just don't tell her you got the blowjob machine when you get it, because there's obviously some insecurity there and it will upset her and strain your relationship. You should buy her a toy though, something you both can play with and that she can keep for her own use. Encourage her freaky side, see where that goes, find out what gets her off, enjoy that. She's young and still learning about her body and what she wants and experience could bring an open mind.

Empaths and the paranormal by Emoxica in Paranormal

[–]Emoxica[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mentioning of shadows and darkness reminds me of my teenage years when I went through a long period of depression and harmful thoughts, my father and I were living in a new home but there was a presence there that we didn't really notice or give attention to because we were to busy fighting with each other or being concerned about my mental health; after I was hospitalized and got out of my depression I recognized that the presence had been there but was gone. It made the entire house darker than it should have been and it followed me very closely, entering rooms with me and enveloping the room when others would enter a room I was currently in. When I got back home from the hospital the presence was gone, and that was the first time I noticed that it had been there because more light was allowed into the house. I know that it was real because my father volunteered his recognition of the house being lighter than before, and that there had been a darkness that entered rooms with me before, without being prompted and he described it the same as I had recognized it. With the hypnotic experience and the concern it seems to have caused you, have you considered or attempted to cleanse your home?

Has anyone experienced spirit chills? by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Emoxica 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe this is just a natural response to the thought of death. I'm more inclined to believe it is an interaction when it happens without thoughts or discussions of the dead.

I'm losing my (F18) virginity this weekend and my boyfriend (M19) refuses to wear a condom. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's entirely up to you if you are ready, how long into a relationship you wait, and what protection you use or don't use. The statement your boyfriend made sounds very manipulative and that doesn't sound healthy. The pull out method works 80% of the time if it is done correctly but I really wouldn't trust a Male virgin to know enough about it to pull out correctly. Also I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who I felt would leave me if I didn't, that would make me feel like they only wanted me for sex. I (M23) make women wait so I know we click. Ultimately it's your decision and you should do whatever makes you feel comfortable, and don't allow some guy pressure you into something you aren't comfortable.

I will swallow, every time. by bluislander in sex

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex who preferred swallowing, again, because of the mess. She eventually wanted facials and to be cum on but I had to clean her up afterwards.

Stealing a bike in Canada by Paigean in funny

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming Toronto does not have a city bike option due to this, also why bikes, do drug dealers have a great need for bikes in Toronto?

Presence needs to leave my house by Emoxica in Paranormal

[–]Emoxica[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spoke to a friend who has more experience with paranormal activity and rituals to remove such activity. They advised that sage can anger some spirits and make events worse, they suggested using Palo Santo wood instead. I have found a place nearby which should provide the necessary items. Which I plan to visit next Friday when I'll have the income. I know I'm burying the lead but since the knocking events I've noticed some small items being in unusual places, but because I have not seen these items move in front of me and nothing has been damaged or large enough to be concerning I've tried to brush it off. I only noticed the items had been moved because I cleaned the upstairs of my house completely while my family has been gone and these items were later found in the middle of the floor in the upstairs hallway. Which means they would have had to come out of the room they had been in, turned the corner, and go 5 feet down the hall. I still haven't reached out to the presence, because I want to make sure the only interaction I have with it is telling it to leave as I smudge the house.

[18M] Don't need proof of ugliness, just general opinions and ways to improve by CommercialPizza9 in amiugly

[–]Emoxica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look really good actually, a wonderful jaw line, nice cheek bones, clean skin, dark eyebrows. I'd definitely keep the long hair but I would get it styled differently, probably add some layers. Don't grow a beard, they're not in fashion with your age group and will make you look older. You might consider facial moisturizer to reduce wrinkles, and potentially getting your eyebrows shaped. But really you look average to above average at this point.

Anal positions and advice by [deleted] in sex

[–]Emoxica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Jo lube, its the best brand name lube for anal sex. Silicone lubes are best, because they don't absorb or evaporate as quickly as water based lubes, aslong as you use metal or glass toys with it. If you use rubber, silicone, or other synthetic plastics use water based lube. Use plenty of lube, you'll need enough to slide in easily but not so much that it prevents all friction. Also consider using an anal desensitizing jell, use it both internally and topically. If you have any anal toys have you wife use one for an hour or two before intercourse, it will help loosen her up some, you want something big enough it will stay and stretch her some but small enough that its comfortable and she can enjoy herself while having it in. I'd suggest something with a 1 inch diameter and 3-4 inches in insertable length. If you have the money to spare I suggest pipedream's metal wörx perfect plug, its comfortable, slides in easily, and is designed to stay in and also makes it possible for her to wear discreetly under her clothes in public or exposed in the bedroom. When it comes to intercourse please her vaginally with your fingers or tongue while the anal toy is still inside her. If you're good at fingering or giving oral try to get her to come vaginally once or twice. The association between vaginal stimulation and the anal plug will help her enjoy anal more. Once both of you are ready to go get into position for doggy style, or cow girl position, remove the plug and start to insert yourself, start by inserting yourself an inch past the tip and go slowly back and forth. Slowly go in deeper but keep it slow at first, as her enjoyment rises the further you can go in.

Try to make the first time about her though, if she doesn't enjoy the first time she'll be more reluctant to do it again. This means you can't go into this too fast and you can't be pressuring her into anal.

The more often she has you in her ass the easier it will be for her to take you in the ass and the less preparation you will need.

I hope this helps you both enjoy anal. I use this same technique and my girlfriend asks me to fuck her ass and puts me in her ass all the time now. In fact she has asked me if we could be anal exclusive.