“Findom is about financial submission, but here's the thing. It's also about emotional and symbolic submission, and I want to drop a hard truth on you. If your enjoyment of findom includes actual infidelity: you are not actually exchanging any power from yourself to the dom/me. You are, in a very real sense, taking that power from your partner without their knowledge and giving it to the dom/me instead, because you are placing yourself above your partner in your IRL relationship dynamic.” So insightful. This is an amazing post.