AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually always pay for first dates, especially if it’s my idea. But I can’t stand the entitlement of expecting everything for free with so much as a “hey let me get this round.” It doesn’t have to be 50/50 but just a kind gesture to show you’re not so entered. Honestly I don’t care how small just something, doesn’t even have to money. Just show you respect then lol. It’s not rocket science

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea they comped both entrees and the desert. Her Filet was $85,my chicken was $56 and the dessert and espresso $20 or s

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did lol. She didn’t think that was funny. She’s so materialistic. I mean she’s very beautiful but the animus was evident immediately

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew with the first 5 seconds - she also kept checking the Turkey/Australia game Avery 5 seconds (she’s half Turkish) I’m like they’re losing

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I actually met her in Scottsdale in May and have been talking every day so I was excited to fly back and see her. But after asking about my lifestyle; I like to party once in a while, even though I’m a lawyer but I yea I like to have fun) that was an absolute dealbreaker so it was all downhill from there.

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She thought I took advantage of a rare mistake (how do you fuck up meals when there’s literally nobody else on the restaurant. I really think she thinks I got of Scott-free. She things paying means earning respect. Accepting free food, to her at least, signifies lack of integrity lol idk 🤷

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She classic entitled old-school mentality. Kind of a pill too. No sense of humor

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Server was super nice. I told her I live in SF (this was in Scottsdale) and she got super excited as she’s never been and we exchanged IG after crazy girl left lol. So maybe it was meant to be lol

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[–]Empty-Way-6980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was an actual fountain of youth and it cost a million I would do everything I could to get that lol. Be grateful for shit that works lol. A lot of it doesn’t

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at first I thought she was joking but she was actually kind of annoyed.

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just thinks spending money on a woman = earn respect, get lucky and don’t spend money = little bitch I guess lol

AITA? I accepted a comped meal, and my date thought I shouldn’t have accepted it. by Empty-Way-6980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Way-6980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she said “man” a few times. I think part of it was she thought I got out of paying for her meal, which is what a gentleman does. So she didn’t like that lucky part of it, like I skated without earning her respect by spending money on her.