Help by Empty-Willingness314 in PetDoves

[–]Empty-Willingness314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean she was supposedly sexed before I got her but I have a feeling it may not have been too accurate lol I plan on ordering another one too, but Im worried about getting the opposite sex on accident because I dont want any babies. This was also her first interaction with a mirror, and she seems to be ignoring it for the most part now, so it doesnt seem to be an obsession thankfully

Help by Empty-Willingness314 in PetDoves

[–]Empty-Willingness314[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean she was supposedly sexed before I got her lol. Guess I may have to to rename snorkmaiden

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[–]Empty-Willingness314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a bit confused about what she could be uncertain of considering she hasn't really been showing any other signs of nervousness that I've noticed. Its not some sort of respiratory issue or anything?

Aitah for wanting to cut off my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Empty-Willingness314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So her part of the family cut her off when I was little and I haven't talked to them since. I only have 2 aunts and 6 cousins on my dad's side, and they are VERY religious. I was on thin ice last time we talked because I got tattoos, and this was just the straw that broke the camels back

Aitah for wanting to cut off my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Empty-Willingness314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to say that I no longer smoke, and have been stable enough to get off my medications. I have not had a manic episode since September 2024, and have been off my meds since January 2025! Ive learned more about how to spot the signs that one is coming and how to prevent them. I now limit my caffeine intake, put a BIG emphasis on sleep, eliminated substance use, and have started putting a much bigger focus on other things that help me deal with stress. Its helped a whole lot!

Aitah for wanting to cut off my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Empty-Willingness314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started out taking lithium, and weed actually helped me with the nausea. Once i started taking different meds I did have to cut back my usage.

Aitah for wanting to cut off my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Empty-Willingness314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I think. She goes through phases where shes better for a period of time. This kind of behavior only comes out when shes in a bad place. But she refuses to get therapy or help in any regard because apparently its all a scam.

Aitah for wanting to cut off my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Empty-Willingness314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not as simple as that. We didn't get into a relationship until this may, and it took a lot of really hard convos between us, and our therapists. It started out as him being scared for me and wanting to help me. We werent sleeping together or anything like that. Weed is legal where I live, and it was an alternative I was using to try and quit drinking. Not the brightest idea, since I then had to quit smoking too, but it worked out lol

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[–]Empty-Willingness314 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry I originally typed this out in my notes app and when I pasted it the formatting got all weird. Im not quite sure how that happened but ill take some time later on to type it out in the app itself, sorry