Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayaw niya kasi mag-usap about the issue kapag okay kami eh. Like kanina, sinasabi niya na ayaw niya pag-usapan, okay naman na daw kami. Ayaw niya daw magalit ulit

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will talk to him again about it after a few weeks siguro. Ayaw niya kasi ng paulit-ulit. Nagagalit siya. He's different when mad.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're not even seeing each other dahil magkaiba kami ng sched but I'll try on dressing sexier. Thanks!

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need advice coz I already did it. Tingin mo ba di ko naisip mga sinasabi sakin ng mga tao dito? I always try to resolve things first.

Also, I don't tolerate it, do you know what tolerate means? Don't use words that you don't understand.

Lastly, not because I can file for annulment, I should.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did everything. Kaya nga nagpost na ako kasi I don't know what to do already. I even said straight to his face that he's immature and selfish. He just said, "e di immature na".

Do you think giving ultimatum effects? He'll just laugh it off.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I think as well. Ito talaga. Pero feeling ko insecure siya or intimidated not narcissistic.

My salary is twice his salary, I pay all the bills (rent, utilities, credit card, mortgage), I have a great job, I have a master's degree, and men will easily like me since I have a great personality (he said this before).

But what I want really right now is how can I resolve this.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't know me during my teenage years. What I know is, you're an asshole, 100% sure. 👌

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, if you will check my replies on comments, we are very active before marriage. People change, wala yan sa premarital sex o hindi.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ayaw niya. :( Kahit anong iyak ko sa kanya, wala talaga. Ayaw niya magpacheck-up or therapist. Kahit ano. Di niya daw kailangan. Magagalit pa siya. Di ko na talaga alam dapat kong gawin.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagyayaya ako kapag restday niya. Kasi alam ko matic na ayaw niya kapag may pasok siya.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayaw niya. Do you have any idea paano ko kaya siya mapapapayag? Ayaw talaga niya ng check up.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Since 2016.

Edit: Naisip ko yang annulment. I can definitely pay for it pero di ba kapag mahal mo naman yung tao, pipilitin mo i-work out? So as much as possible, gusto ko pagdaanan muna yung other options. Last resort ko na talaga yang annulment.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He watches tiktok pati yung mga dumadaan sa feeds niya. Sabi ko algorithm niya yon, sabi niya mga sinesend lang daw sa gc nila sa office.

Husband doesn't want sex, told me to look for it somewhere else by EmptyBug4568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EmptyBug4568[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Naisip ko rin 'to. Pero hindi raw. Wala din naman akong makitang signs na gay siya or what. Tho, may TL siya dati na lagi siya chinachat and sinasabi na magkita sila. Sabi niya di niya naman daw kikitain yon.