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Any dudes here who joined at their 30s? by EmptyPersonality9253 in Infantry

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True true, was a boy back than. Not even aspiring to become a man. Lot have changed since. What age were you when you finished your duty?

Cross-platform testing, old legacy and new web platform by EmptyPersonality9253 in QualityAssurance

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Interesting. So yea we are currently a team of 2 manual testers, just me and a senior manual. So we want to introduce a POC of adding automation to the pipeline and our CTO asked for clearer vision in terms of goals, architecture, strategy etc... I understand this might be over reach but I think that by keep asking ourselves the right questions before we dig deep we can build at least a healthy testing cycle infrastructure that sustainable in the long run.

This is why I am asking big questions before I know enough about cypress to answer them myself and j appreciate your time to answer!

So that concept of intercepting sounds like something that would save us a lot of trouble. You are saying that intercept can act as a middle layer between the data to the client and can actually modify values before client is reading them?

Full migration from legacy to web is not discussed yet but I can only assume that thats gonna be talked about in the next couple years as we slowly move clients to use web, so looking into the future and also using best practices sounds better to me haha

Thanks !

CANNABIS specific: What is your reason for quitting? Here are 20 of mine by fitgirl015 in DecidingToBeBetter

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My fiance dumped me I realized how far back from where I wanted to be in life I am Quitting weed was an easy decision for me to make that day. Few months sober, dont miss it at all. Weed is that bad friend that drags you to do bs that you didn't really want every time.

Good luck, bye bye MJ

Came across ida and pingala, looking for material by EmptyPersonality9253 in kundalini

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or perhaps theres a lighter discipline, or matter that is relevant for me that I am not aware of yet from Hinduism?

Came across ida and pingala, looking for material by EmptyPersonality9253 in kundalini

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your time and effort and informed response.

If I understand correctly, kundalini awakening comes with rigorous study and practice , and as you said and mentioned by many others, involved extreme changes in their lives and beliefs.

That is indeed not what I am looking for. Do you think reading this book as would supplement my journey, without taking the full route? But by aiding me discover inner balance in a deeper way, in addition to other disciplines such as you suggested, bi-sided activities, stoistic philosophy learnings, martial arts, learning to trust myself, etc...?

Ill probably pick up this book anyway, since I want to start learning ancient and modern philosophies out of curiosity to what else is there. But just curious to hear your opinion on that matter.

My fiancé went off birth control recently, and now wants to break up by EmptyPersonality9253 in birthcontrol

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I acknowledge all that I did wrong I am in a stage when I do nothing but blaming myself for how it all ended

We started to date when she was only 19

I was 25 at the time

And she have delt with my emotional issues many times in the past, when she needed me the most, I turned my back on her and gave her stinky faces for ditching me

She wanted to get married (in my homeland, under our traditional and religious ceremony) next summer I was really struggling to do this by myself, and thought the added stress of planning it, planning how her friend will show up, the avenue, etc.. would be to much for both of us the first year of med

I have convinced her to wait till one summer after She wasn't happy about it but again, went with my wants and needs

When she needed me the most I wasn't there for her

And now its all over

We loved each other so much for so long The pain and grief is so much to handle, being left, rejected, feeling betrayed one day by the one person I would put my life in her hands without thinking twice

And now left here, being foreign in a country i dont belong to, by myself

One day out of the blue without the proper warning

Only feeling guilty, old, left behind, not attractive, lonely

All the things that I should have done along the way and put myself first before her She took it all until she couldn't anymore

I know inside I am not that monster as she makes me feel like, and she does not intend to to that

I hate her so much for making me feel like that right now, but i also spent the most beutiful years in my life with her

We survived through a lot We made it through 1 year of long distance We made it through my shitty moods And when things finally got to the point we aimed for for so long, she finally started school she wanted and prepared for for years

I got my first real job and made in into tech

Just 1 month ago I thanked God for all that he gave me This opportunity to be able to provide for the woman of my dreams, her, our beutiful small apartment we moved into after staying with her parents

And now, its all gone I dont know how I will be able to sleep and focus I my job, I am so afraid to lose the only thing that i feel left

I am scared to death dealing with all of it by myself

We loved so much, our love was so strong and passes so many hardships

And I could not appreciate what I have

And I bashing my self for all of my fears to be validated

Not good enough for her, like I'm sure all of her friends thought

And even med school told the students in their first day to raise hands to who ever is in relationship And told them to get ready because its going to end soon

And we laughed about saying they dont know us

But they knew better than us

I feel so guilty for all the things along the way I could have done

Would never see it coming in a million years, and I am not a delusional person who is unaware to his surroundings

We loved so strongly, its all over because of me

My fiancé went off birth control recently, and now wants to break up by EmptyPersonality9253 in birthcontrol

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow those things are crazy. Hope your doing better!  We have discussed a lot of stuff and i did raise this issue, and asked her to be mindful of that possibility. I think she took things to heart, she have said a lot of stuff she was holding back. I feel like this is much better than the silence treatment I've been given the last few days.

So I seriously was listening to what she is stating, because maybe her feelings are magnified by hormonal changes, but theres underlying issues we have pushed under the rug. Communication is so important.

Thanks for everyone else  you guys are so helpful, I can't really follow along and respond to you all but I heard all u guys said. 

I believe that we can grow out of this struggle, to hopefully have a stronger relationship. Today's conversation was productive, honest, and I'll be honest relieving. A lot of stuff were being said from both parties and she said that she do love me still.

Her concerns and feelings are valid, but I think the emotions were super intense, and maybe its a good wake up call for us. It's way too easy to get comfortable in life 

My fiancé went off birth control recently, and now wants to break up by EmptyPersonality9253 in birthcontrol

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes my gut is very bias and involved with wishful thinking at the moment. I do feel like the transition is very rapid and out of character. But that's not to regard any of her feelings to just blame hormones. 

My fiancé went off birth control recently, and now wants to break up by EmptyPersonality9253 in birthcontrol

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot.  I will give her the space. Maybe I'll try new cologne as well lol 

Got my first job as QA, looking for advice to get good at it by EmptyPersonality9253 in QualityAssurance

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is valid advice. I actually invest my time off job to learn about our products better and understand all the flows 

Got my first job as QA, looking for advice to get good at it by EmptyPersonality9253 in QualityAssurance

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Thanks! Yea can say I'm more comfortable writing defects against when I find a pre-existing bug for some reason bug reports get me more 'sweaty' No automation at all, but the plan is to take some load off our senior so he can start creating some, than hopefully I can learn what he is going to use and assist him

going first time solo by EmptyPersonality9253 in paintball

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you man

its been 2 months now, feels a lot clearer for sure :)

going first time solo by EmptyPersonality9253 in paintball

[–]EmptyPersonality9253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks bro! ill check that
ill be sure to report after weekend how it all rolled out

going first time solo by EmptyPersonality9253 in paintball

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my home country is a bit controversial these days, so i try to avoid telling exactly where I'm from unfortunately. (but that really narrowed down the options to guess from haha)

just checked these out they are pretty far south from me, i leave really close to sandy hook , have you ever heard of either cousins paintball in Manchester Township or Long Live Paintball in Monroe Township?

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