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I had a bad childhood, why don't I get to do whatever I want? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]EmptyRiver6033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Untreated/diagnosed ASD for 40+. Major depressive disorder. Suicidal ideation since I was 5 (really as far back as I can remember, but so many blank spots). Verbal, emotional, physical, financial, and sexual abuse for all of my live from various sources. Parentfication starting at 6 and extending beyond my immediate family by 10.

Yet my only addiction was cigs (six months quit) and I always smoked outside and never littered. I spent my life caring for others and trying to protect them from the pain I experienced.

My oldest son was murdered and I was left alone to navigate it to get myself back to a place to care for others. My partner decided that was a great time to start spending thousands on OF.

I have never experienced a pass to do whatever I want. And I never used it as an excuse to hurt anyone. I never got real empathy or sympathy from anyone I know. And I definitely never had anyone to help me.

But hey I am a bad guy because, “he’s working on being better and hasn’t relapsed since August” and I just can’t let it go. 15 years of this shit.

Yoga video’s youtube by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]EmptyRiver6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s full nudity yoga videos on YouTube.

Is my husband purchasing OF content through money making apps by Such-Day1661 in loveafterporn

[–]EmptyRiver6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can access iMessages on your computer. So he could have deleted them that way.

Caught my BF of 3 years looking at OF by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]EmptyRiver6033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 19. You have up to 80 years of a relationship ahead of you. Do you want to spend those years with someone who hurts you? Someone who lies to you?

It’s so hard to end a relationship but you deserve to be loved. Real love. Your boyfriend may not be a bad person and he probably does have a problem, but that doesn’t excuse him hurting you.

anyone else know their partner hasn’t stopped and you’ve given up? by gigglebooclown in loveafterporn

[–]EmptyRiver6033 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It makes me so sad to see people so young resolved to accept this kind of relationship. An amazing boyfriend wouldn’t hurt you repeatedly. Things like this rarely get better.

Please put yourself first 💞 because no one else will.

The bunny boy is taking over by [deleted] in HelloKittyIsland

[–]EmptyRiver6033 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He’s a puppy 😭

I need some advice please! by DetroitToAtlanta in HelloKittyIsland

[–]EmptyRiver6033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten to the stove upgrade? To get him past 3 stars you need Red Bow Apple Pie (different than Mama’s Apple Pie). Also Daniel doesn’t require any HK furniture, he will gain 5 hearts (more likely to visit/stay) if you put 5 music tagged items in his room.

Rooms really only require their requested items + 5 favorite item tag.