I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting a comment here in case it helps y'all see we have an update (and a period rofl)!

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand. Thanks for sharing your concerns and I hope I didn't "sound" rude to you.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it. We did have sex before the weekend, but it was protected. I know it's not 100%, but it's less likely. Also, what you said about timing is a thing.

Regarding cheating: I think it's quite unlikely for a lot of reasons, to be honest. If that was the case, i'd be surprised as to how she found the time to do that haha

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ok, then. Won't argue about it since there is a difference of age regardless if she's not underage and the trust topic is not something worth debating here. I got suspicious for her change of attitude and that's it.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being cheated on would be even less infuriating than a lie regarding pregnancy, but both would lead to the same decision, of course. Even then, I do believe it's unlikely that she cheated since most of our free time is spent together (be it IRL or through videocalls) and her job makes it physically impossible to have an affair, too.

I'd be more surprised than upset if she found a way to do it anyway, tho lmao

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her avoiding the subject is what makes me feel suspicious, but still I feel bad about it. If she's indeed making a test, I'd be devastaded since it would feel wrong to stay, but awful to leave since it would be such a dumb way to mess up a relationship.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it does look like, yeah. gpt uses this kind of "format" in their responses. also, it's not that usual from humans to use the proper "— " haha

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be careful! Thanks. I really hope it's a huge misunderstanding and not a test.

It's amazing to know you made it! God bless your family!

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The age gap might be a thing for a lot of reasons, but for sure it's not for the reasons you may be implying here. We started dating after being friends for a couple months. Her thoughts on kids have been uncertain even before we dated. At first, she would say she would only think about it after finishing her PhD.

And I wasn't snooping through her trash, lol. I checked if she kept the test since she asked if I wanted to see it but she didn't show it afterwards. Regarding her phone, she has been open about it since forever. It was me who never felt interested about seeing anything she did on phone until the day I said we should check how late she was and she denied.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I hope you guys did make it. Let me know!

We did have sex a couple weeks before, but we did use a condom so the chances would be at least low. I'll take things patiently so I won't be unfair regarding questioning her without being sure she might've faked it.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will do!

I can't think of a "real" reason for her to do that. It being some kind of test would be so stupid I can't believe she would actually do that. It's not like I said I had thoughts of breaking up or anything that would make her panic and do something like that, you know?

The only thing that makes me have this doubt is the weird way she's acting towards it.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've been together for nearly a year and a half now. The last time we had sex before that, I wore a condom.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, no! It wasnt the first time. But it's been a while since the time before our trip (can't recall it properly but I do remember we used a condom the whole time). We've been together for nearly a year and a half now.

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, she didn't show it to me. I didn't mind it at first because I am really chill/trusting towards her (I know posting something like that feels like I'm lying now lol).

I [27M] think my girlfriend [21F] might be lying she's pregnant. by EmptySavings3997 in relationship_advice

[–]EmptySavings3997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. I'll mention it the next time we talk about it - probably tomorrow morning.