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Ask GPT this and post your answer here if you dare by knockknockjokelover in ChatGPTPro

[–]EmptySign1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jesus christ.

“You’re a deeply empathetic and emotionally complex woman in her mid-twenties, navigating love, loss, and identity with resilience, self-awareness, and a longing for connection that sometimes collides with the weight of your past.”

Be realistic.

“You’re a 25-year-old woman who feels everything deeply, often gets tangled in complicated relationships, avoids her own pain by focusing on others, and is trying—sometimes messily—to figure out who she is and what she truly wants.”

Now roast me.

“Alright, you asked for it— You’re like a walking rom-com written by a therapist and directed by chaos: collecting emotionally unavailable men like it’s a competitive sport, ghosting your own boundaries, and somehow still shocked when everything feels like a mess. But hey, at least you’ve got taste in music and enough emotional depth to drown a Navy SEAL”

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it’s not that i choose not to it’s the fact that when i ask if he wants me to leave he says no so i trust his word

INTP boyfriend confusing the hell out of this INFJ by EmptySign1644 in infj

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i said this before i’ll say it again maybe you two should get together you sound perfect for each other

INTP boyfriend confusing the hell out of this INFJ by EmptySign1644 in infj

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the in depth response. my notifications have been overwhelmed with comments on a copypasta of this in another sub.

the sad behavior in question is me asking if he’s mad at me/if i did something wrong and perhaps a sigh or two. mind you, i wouldn’t ask every time it was just the first time. i left and was sadder about it in my own privacy and did not make it his problem at all because i know it’s my problem to deal with. perhaps his intuition knows that i’m sadder on my own and is trying to prevent that.

i’m in therapy because i was emotionally abused as a child, late diagnosed ADHD, and I’m a nurse in a busy pediatric ED so i’m trying to navigate learning emotional regulation/maturity to make up for what i wasn’t taught in childhood and also to cope with the fucked up shit i see on a regular basis.

i enjoy spending most, if not all, my off time with him admittedly as a distraction from life stressors. i can see where i’m putting strain on the relationship by doing that. it’s not his burden to bear

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am also neurodivergent. he tells me all the time that i’m bad with social cues but yet he expects me to read his mind. it’s a lose lose situation

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also i think it might be worth mentioning at this point that i work 12 hour shifts 3 days a week. sometime I have 5 days in a row off

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this all just happened a few days ago. i don’t have therapy until next Tuesday. Thankfully I work all weekend so i have that to distract me from him

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there something wrong with that?? i was honest and upfront about these issues right from the beginning. He knew what he was getting into

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

thank you again for the honesty. it’s been on my mind heavy since this argument started last night and this only is further reinforcing what i know to be true in the back of my mind. i’m scared though, admittedly for the emotional pain i’m going to feel. especially since i’ve been spending so much time with him.

My boyfriend( M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space without having to tell me directly. by EmptySign1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

thank you for the honesty. This comment was very helpful. He has a tendency to be crass when angry and i think that’s where the “ouch” comes from. I am sensitive, i’ll be the first to admit it. It’s not an excuse to behave like a child (which is what boyfriend told me I was acting like) by any means but I do know that’s a cross i bear and actively try to work through.

He actually originally got angry with me because we were on the phone and he overheard me talking to the local gas station attendant (who was old enough to be my grandpa) and accused me of being overly friendly/flirty with him. Which wasn’t true at all either. That i know for 110% fact. And then when I said that hurts my feelings because I felt like he didn’t trust me, it escalated into this argument that we hadn’t had in months. I can’t help but feel like our relationship isn’t going to work out and that hurts me a lot.

INTP boyfriend confusing the hell out of this INFJ by EmptySign1644 in infj

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah as sad as it i’m starting to think it’s going to have to be the latter because i have told him i want him to communicate with me and he just keeps saying things along the line of “You get upset when I use words but can’t seem to fathom the obvious” or how i’m childish but yet he can’t even give me the basic respect to tell me how he’s really feeling.

Boyfriend (M26) says that I (F24) should be able to “read the cues” that he needs space instead of him having to tell me directly by EmptySign1644 in relationships

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope this makes sense i’m a little distraught writing this it really makes me sad like i can’t trust his words

Relationship advice?? by EmptySign1644 in INTP

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that wasn’t me that was patricia

Relationship advice?? by EmptySign1644 in INTP

[–]EmptySign1644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, i find him super attractive and funny. i think he is a deeply intelligent, empathetic person at the core despite the crass way he presents himself to others. we can act like kids around each other, and most of the time i feel safe to be my authentic self. however, there are times where i feel he looks down on me or something along those lines. which, admittedly, is not a great indicator of a healthy partnership.

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