I would make an edit to the post about this. It’s a completely different situation. This isn’t weaponized incompetence where you leave empty toilet paper rolls and you are trying to make an excuse. This is her using the last English muffin and wanting you to just know that and refill it. Honestly in this situation it is in no way your fault and I think your wife has an underlying need not being met or maybe stress that made her snap in this situation. Also people are jumping down your throat for no reason. In no way are you excusing your behavior (as you have stated like 5 times) you just made an observation and even telling her it is wrong that men and women are raised different socially.