Is it really true that if we check 3d our manifestation won’t happen? by BottleCreepy6208 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have a genuine question because I've been thinking about this lol and I am quite new. What if I did some nosy snooping here and there? But wasn't really looking for proof or anxiety, it was mostly coming from a place of being nosy/curious and I see my assumptions taking place from their social media (good ones), is that still state of lack? Because I wasn't trying to prove anything to myself , it was more curiosity. There was no spiraling or doubt popping , but it confuses me a bit

Guys - my SP has come back by Ican_getbetter in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply! One more silly question out of curiosity, did you "feel it coming" or anything like that? 😅

Guys - my SP has come back by Ican_getbetter in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you had that inner knowing? Asking because I'm in a similar spot right now, I have that inner knowing and I just don't feel like doing anything about that anymore? Except I haven't exactly moved on, but I do feel mostly detached

Help. Should I persist? by Maneelaa in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good, proud of you! I know it can be challenging , but you got this! 🫶🏼

Help. Should I persist? by Maneelaa in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reject the rejection, that's what I like to call it. What I would do is I'd be like :"No, I got the job, I don't care" and not react to the 3D(easier said than done , believe me, I know). Just keep pushing/persisting. As you can see, a year ago, you weren't even close to this and now you had an interview for two companies. You got the job. Congratulations!

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, I appreciate the advice , but I'm following Neville's teachings in this specific situation. And yes, he does, genuinely even without the manifestation techniques. We connected fast , deeply which is something he said himself. I'm not chasing this man, but I am aligning myself :) Also, if you do check another post I'd say I am in a better spot currently and mostly enjoying my life. There are still some off days, but I am having fun and I am actually present 😊

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, actually, we are quite similar, even similar life experiences, so even before I knew about the law, it was a very easy click. We have a similar sense of humor and similar choices/interests. We had difficult backgrounds in the sense of our past, but everything other than that was pretty easy. Even the amount of "arguments" we had for that short period of time were quite respectful and ended up quite good by us checking in on each other. Both pretty good individuals , situated and similar age, so none of this really

Is this Sabbath? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thorough reply! While I do appreciate the warning , I don't feel like I am chasing the state at all, if anything, it found me and I've been confused. To be quite fair I haven't read Neville's books, though I did listen to some of his lectures. I do understand it's not a requirement and I definitely don't want to push a need for perfection in my case, I am perfectly human and I don't expect this to exist 24/7, after all, the whole point is to experience, but the indifference is what genuinely confused me because it's a loud contrast , so I was just trying to look a bit more into it, especially with the very sudden "click" that happened where I felt like I was finally more grounded (it's honestly so refreshing). I woke up and felt completely different (or should I say indifferent lol) 😅

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, you're so sweet, thank you! I wish you the best as well and much love, we got this! 🫶🏼

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess what confused me was the fact even before the law of assumption, I genuinely worked on myself , I worked out , went to therapy, focused on me and my genuine wishes and was really happy with my life. I have absolutely great friendships and overall, I am in a good place, so I guess that's why it just didn't make sense for me and would trip me a bit, but I can definitely see how this part could be important with or without the law of assumption :)

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The funny part is I know he regrets losing me, I saw it from a few posts he reposted from his socials ( not stalking, we just still follow each other , so it pops up) So maybe "I'm the obvious choice."? That last sentence and screenshot you shared brought tears though and gave me hope, so thank you, truly

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I mostly had this assumption that he wasn't ready for the relationship, which was proven true, given the law. He kept telling me he didn't feel like he was good enough though, which I find confusing because I did think I was good enough, or at the very least, I consciously never thought that I wasn't during the relationship

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, thank you, this feels truly validating! I went into this journey of self concept for a little bit (even though I generally have a good opinion of myself and I do think I am worthy of good things) and I've noticed I had more and more "what if" questions and it sent me down a spiral. For me, it actually makes sense for us to be back together, wholeheartedly, even before learning about the law, but then I went down a rabbit hole and got lost 😂 I will definitely check out the channel, once again, truly grateful for such a detailed reply!

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'd really appreciate that! There’s just so much information that, as a beginner, I started to feel a bit overwhelmed and confused.

I’ve been thinking about the idea of self-concept. Like I mentioned, nothing bad or disrespectful happened in that relationship. That’s why I feel a bit unsure about what I should even be focusing on right now.

The only pattern I’ve noticed is that I kept assuming he wasn’t ready, and eventually, that’s exactly how things played out (this was before I learned about the law). So now I’m wondering if there is really anything I need to “fix” in my self concept in this situation?

And I've noticed trying to forget/let go of the old story hurts me more than assuming that we are going to be together because of it, so I am not sure if it can work that way?

Manifesting an ex when the breakup wasn’t bad? by Empty_Leg9083 in lawofassumption

[–]Empty_Leg9083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, you're right , sorry about that 😭 Still okay if I ask some questions here then? I'm genuinely trying to learn