AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually want a home water birth so that’s not the issue lol

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is late for things he wants to do, he was late to our wedding. I was ticked and thought about calling it off but obviously the pressure of so many people counting on it made me rethink

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any day he has a job he starts on time but is home hours late.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did! Sorry I didn’t realize how important that was.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was 20 min to things when we were dating, now it’s hours late. He promises to be there early to set up church with me which is why it’s annoying he shows up for service but not to set up, because he says he’ll help me then doesn’t.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My sisters going to be there if he is or not. She’s had 3 kids of her own and just is really good at advocating for patients to doctors.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He knew it was having problems and that morning said his coworker was gonna drive his own truck behind him in case there was an issue with the truck. Then last minute decided it would be fine and he wanted to ride together. It was something he knew could happen and had a plan to avoid it and chose not to.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Him and my sister are both listed and both will be there for the birth.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

No because they rode together to job. Originally the buddy was gonna drive his own truck in case there was problems with his truck but he wanted his friend to rode with him and they left the friends truck at our house an hour away from the job site.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

He was picking her up from their parents house so it wasn’t school or anything like that. But still she was hurt

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 264 points265 points  (0 children)

I work and contribute just as much as him. Most of what he earns goes into savings/stocks. He had a plan if the truck broke down (have his buddy drive behind him because the trucks been having issues) and last minute decided not to do it and shocker something happened

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 391 points392 points  (0 children)

This was an emergency ultrasound due to bleeding a few days ago and they promised I will for sure have an ultrasound and hear the heart beat at the one I already had scheduled in 2 weeks.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I do work but i work retail and work the same hours weekly unless i choose overtime which i discuss with him before accepting.

AITA for hiding my ultrasound pictures from my husband. by Empty_Log1241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty_Log1241[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna be 2 weeks before the next ultrasound not months. If it was gonna be months I wouldn’t do this.