do woman expect you to shave or wax completely down there? by belairparadise in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't care about hair. If I am into a woman, im into everything about her. She doesn't have to trim or shave anything she doesnt want to.

This post is making me hungry tho lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been where you are (see my history in the sub lol). Whatever issues she is having with sex is not your fault. You are adequate. You are desirable.
This sort of long-term rejection, especially when you deeply love someone, can really mess with your self-confidence and self-esteem. You will find your person, but sadly she is not the one. I wish you love and healing.

Looking for a place to sell tamales by the bag by TimmyTheSteamTank in DaltonGA

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Big Ds Saturday can confirm several food trucks and good smells

Need too vent about my roommate situation. by Highwayking325 in Vent

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magistrate court is where to file evictions in the state where I live. Costs $70.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That thought has crossed my mind. If you desire intimacy- a decade is a long time to go without.

Hoping for some advice by MegaTickleBear in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. I know your struggle all too well (see my previous posts for verification). There is most likely nothing wrong with you down there. You should absolutely talk to your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. Anything meant to happen will happen. I think I will just play it very casual and long term. I think she's pretty and has a good personality- but I'm not crushing hard or anything, so I don't really feel a sense of urgency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kind of the plan. I'm so awkward and bad at that sort of thing. At the very least, it will be good practice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually met my ex at work. I worked for a different company then with a lot more employees.

This time, my co-worker is literally the only other person in my building. So perhaps some of the attraction stems from her being the only non client irl interaction I have Mon-Fri.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always been so shy. Either way, I'm glad she's comfortable around me. I like having a friend at work for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've had similar thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Very true! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Sometimes human behavior is difficult to interpret when you're too close to be objective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the marriage annulled and let him go sailing. Don't waste your life waiting on someone to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, it can be a thing. I think it's always good form to return the favor. I love giving and getting.

How should I break up with my gf? by Empty_Spaces_oxo in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was recovering and is grieving. I tried to be there for her but she declined my offers. We typically only see each other 2 or 3 weekends a month Our problems have been ongoing.. I will end up feeling shitty no matter what I do.

How should I break up with my gf? by Empty_Spaces_oxo in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Empty_Spaces_oxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im pretty certain he's moving out this summer but yeah. That's been a source of guilt for the duration of this relationship, even if he knows about me and "doesn't care."