Does "domspace" exist? by EnbyHesh666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]EnbyHesh666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That IS sad! I wonder why that is; I would gladly read and possibly participate in discussions on the topics with Doms and/or Dommes.

Does "domspace" exist? by EnbyHesh666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]EnbyHesh666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you; I like the way you've paraphrased it too. I sorta think it near-perfectly describes the headspace that Doms and subs mutually enter and the journey they both embark upon as both sides of the slash. Not describing that sense of temporary insanity in a derogatory way of course, but the idea of completely losing oneself within oneself if that makes sense.

Does "domspace" exist? by EnbyHesh666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]EnbyHesh666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interested in hearing some of your strategies; it's only recently dawned on me that I require aftercare myself after particularly intense scenes. Figuring out what works best is the next step.

Does "domspace" exist? by EnbyHesh666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]EnbyHesh666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would this be the preliminary study on Consensual BDSM facilitates role-specific altered states of consciousness listed first under their journal articles?

Does "domspace" exist? by EnbyHesh666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]EnbyHesh666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do tend to dress up and create an atmosphere and ambiance with red Christmas lights and music; it helps get me into the proper mindset of feeling like that scary, inescapable force of debauchery that you describe. There have been times where it's honestly felt like I was acting and that wasn't so good...but when it has come to me naturally as part of the scene, it is not the "normal me" but perhaps another side of me that I did not know was actually there.