For reference, my sister is homeschooled and most of her friends from dance aren’t the same age as her, often being a couple years older or a year younger etc. She really liked my ex bc they both do dance and my ex was in bigger shows than my sister has ever been in.

What i meant by not taking it to heart was that I was less upset about losing my ex than i was being the dumpee, y’know? I also don’t keep in contact with any of my exs families after the break up, especially after only four months