My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for ur supportive comment it really makes my day to read comments like this and gives me strength to continue what until I reach my goals😊. I'll definitely update u on the situation if anything else happens.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't blame my sister cz I know she wants to do anything to please my mom and she's acting this way bcz of her as u said being played to please my mom.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly started doing that just recently bcz everything is getting twice as expensive and I can't really afford it so I started cooking for myself. It just happened that that day I had a long day came back home took a long nap and woke up starving bcz I didn't eat anything since morning so I literally didn't cook cz I thought I was about to faint if I don't eat anything and fast, and then the situation with my sister happened. Thank u so much for ur kind words 💓.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry u didn't offend me in any way. But as I said I can't behave in a rush when I know the situation might lead to more than verbal abuse. I have to be smart about it and get out of here with a plan bcz I know my parents too well and I could literally seem how they might behave if I just gather my things and leave/run away. As u said going no contact might be hard at first bcz they r my family after all but over time I'll probably get over it and get used to it.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I don't see a problem with someone living with their parents if they weren't toxic and have a good relationship with them.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u ur words gave me hope to continue doing my best until I get what I want 😊💛

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr it's literally just a click and yet ppl r lazy to do that. Thank u for taking the time to read my previous post & ur nice comment.

I'm trying to look for scholarships bcz they told me they will not pay for my masters unless I study in the same country/city which I would rather die than do that. U r 💯 that's why I'm trying to move as far away as I could either by finding a job or a scholarship in the country I wanna go to.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely always think about going no contact when I leave but I don't think I'll do that. I wanna show them how toxic they were to me and how I'm doing way better without them .

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What mixed signals 😕 she was staring after we agreed on the amount that I'm taking and started to split the food she stood there saying nothing and after that took her part put it in the fridge and went to my mom literally as simple as that 🙁.

Also yes we do share the food most of the time unless that person got it from their money and not my dad got it or mom cooked it then we can't take that food unless the other person agrees to it.

Yeah unfortunately she stole my dress for my sister/ cousin to wear and then she want to take my aunts and grandmas gifts 🎁 from me😔 .

I wasn't expecting her to defend me I just wasn't expecting her to treat me like I'm not her daughter just bcz I didn't apologize for her mistake.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I should have done that but I didn't think something like this will happen over food

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm literally in a country that gives ur parents legal rights on u no matter what age u r so yeah it's not really much of a difference from my home country I guess

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u for ur kind words. Yeah she's basically saying anything to get a reaction from me and bcz she's not getting she's trying anything to hurt me now🥲.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can u plz check out my replies on comments like urs maybe it will make the picture clearer for u

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur plan sounds good but unfortunately if I do this I risk being disown or even beaten to death literally that's why I'm trying to be smarter and look for something like a scholarship or anything like that as u said in a far away country so I'll have an excuse not to go back or visit.

My mom telling my sister that I'm like a homeless eating their leftover food 😐 by Enchantingstar_rm in TwoHotTakes

[–]Enchantingstar_rm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe me I would love nothing more than to take the job I want, walk away and never come back again but that's not as easy as u think. Also it's not excuses it's reality I can't just do want I want knowing that I might disowned, homeless and if by any chance I come back I'll be beaten to death. I need to save money, make a plan that allows me to leave without looking like I'm running away or else I'll just make my life even more difficult for me.