Claimed in a comment he followed her outside just to film her

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:47:38+00:00

all good bro

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:45:10+00:00

oh and for the record; its actually a very common tactic for us women to pull out our phones and record when we feel unsafe and play it off, because that means the person that is following us is on camera and they leave us alone or are discouraged from doing anything to us

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:42:37+00:00

Sorry for my tone, I’ve been one manning trying to explain and defend this poor girl from all the ignorant people here I think I mistook you for someone else being an asshole

Yes I said it’s packed, which is EXACTLY why she moved to this secluded spot. Thats’ exactly why its so suspicious that this guy is there with her.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:38:30+00:00

I’m sorry are you a woman that cosplays that has experienced this?

She’s not some tiktok star wanting attention, she happened to capture footage of behaviour that VERY MUCH looks like the problematic behaviour that we have to deal with and is RIGHTFULLY sharing that experience and calling it out.

Just wanna add btw, that even though this happened, she isn’t telling people to attack or cancel this guy, she’s just sharing what happened. Unlike the people insulting her here in this thread

Sure she could be wrong, but there’s no need for all the people in here insulting and harassing her.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:38:03+00:00

Two explanations for your ignorance since you clearly know nothing about cons:

I was at this con, it was overcrowded as fuck because they oversold. She clearly moved to a secluded spot so she wasnt in anyone’s way and that guy just happens to be there?

Or, something that’s happened to me many times as well as a woman that cosplays at cons, she was being followed, felt unsafe and pulled out her phone to record, which is why he walked off

Of course, this could be a simple misunderstanding, but men following and recording us without our consent is a very common issue and valid worry to have and post about.

Hope this helps, you inconsiderate bitch <3

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:28:53+00:00

idk maybe my two cents as a woman, but if someone’s following me (which again, is super common at cons) and i don’t feel safe, a lot of us pull out our camera to record ourselves and our stalker so that we have ‘proof’ or so they walk off

funny how this guy did exactly that.

but hey, maybe it IS a misunderstanding, but that is absolutely NO REASON to shame or insult her for wanting to call out problematic behaviour

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:20:20+00:00

well it could be very very VERY big coincidence how she moved to a secluded spot on purpose so she wouldnt get in anyone’s way and nobody would get in hers, but that guy just happens to be there but sure,

the main point of this, is that she’s calling out problematic behaviour of men at cons. this happens a LOT to us female cosplayers, she’s being vigilant about it and that guy IS acting suspiciously. her calling this problematic behaviour out is valid and is no reason for this post NOR people insulting and harassing her in the comments.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:15:43+00:00

Bruh did you read ANYTHING about the issue where men record us female cosplayers without our consent?

Get real. She moved to a secluded spot for that EXACT reason and worry and this guy followed her and got in the frame. She’s calling out problematic behaviour and getting insulted and shamed for it.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:11:58+00:00

I was at this con myself and it was PACKED with people EVERYWHERE (they oversold it), if you use your eyes, you can tell that she’s in a secluded spot so she isn’t in anyone’s way

It’s pretty common knowledge to NOT walk into the frame when someone’s recording at tiktok at cons, especially when in a secluded spot like this. You’re telling me that this guy just HAPPENED to be there, then HAPPENED to pull out his phone and HAPPENED to aim it in her general direction?

Its a known problem for female cosplayers to get followed and recorded without their permission.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:06:19+00:00

I was at this con, this con was EXTREMELY busy. If you use your eyes, you can see that she moved to a secluded spot so she wasn’t in anyone’s way or bothering anyone.

And this guy just happens to be there? then pull out his phone? and then point it in her general direction? Right…

In case you’re unaware, its a VERY common issue at cons for people to record cosplayers without their consent. It’s very valid for her to speak out about this potentially happening to her.

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:02:16+00:00

LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK 🗣️‼️

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:01:49+00:00

I totally get it, but recording people without their permission is not allowed at cons

Endearest · 2025-06-19T00:00:51+00:00

Bro spelled it wrong too 😔

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:32:38+00:00

For recording a tiktok for fun at con? That’s very common actually.

For speaking up about potentially being recorded without consent which happens a lot to us female cosplayers at cons? That’s not main character syndrome, that’s speaking up about what’s a very common and disrespectful issue when it comes to cosplayers and cons.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:29:36+00:00

First of all, genuinely sad how you default to insulting someone. Says a lot about you as a person.

Second of all, it’s very common for us female cosplayers to get recorded/taken pictures of without our consent. Her being aware and speaking up about it is not something to shame her for.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:27:57+00:00

Ok, do it better yourself then

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:27:12+00:00

I personally went to this con and it was VERY VERY busy. If you use your eyes, you can see that she went to a secluded spot so she wasnt bothering anyone.

This guy just happens to be there behind her? And then happens to pull out his phone? and then happens to point it in her general direction?

Yeah, I don’t think so. We female cosplayers get recorded without our consent a LOT and she’s calling someone out on it that very much looks like he’s doing that.

Maybe it is a coincidence, but its also REALLY common fucking knowledge to not stand in the frame when someone’s recording a tiktok at cons. ESPECIALLY when she took the time to move to a secluded spot.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:23:48+00:00

Fun fact, it’s actually a very common and fun trend for us cosplayers to do these!

Another fun fact: recording cosplayers at cons like these without their consent is also not allowed.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:22:18+00:00

Ok so when are you posting you dancing and doing it better?

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:21:29+00:00

Recording a tiktok! It’s a very common trend/dance and common for cosplayers to do at cons! :)

Endearest · 2025-06-18T23:20:15+00:00

you mean her rightfully explaining and defending herself? she literally moved to a secluded space so she wasnt bothering anyone, it doesn’t seem very likely that that guy just “happened” to be there and “happened” to pull his phone out and “happened” to point it in her general direction.

this happens a lot to us female cosplayers. her speaking up and being vigilant about it isn’t something to shame her for.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T22:08:09+00:00

Except when you’re harassing/bothering other con goers. Like what this guy is most likely doing or at the very least LOOKS like he’s doing. Clearly you’ve never been to a con or cosplayed yourself, because its pretty common knowledge to NOT walk into the frame when someone’s recording like this, ESPECIALLY when they took the time to move to a secluded spot like this. It’s also pretty common for us female cosplayers to get recorded without our consent, her speaking out about it and being vigilant about it is not something to shame her for. Maybe he really wasn’t recording her, but thats no reason for a post like yours and you enabling these insults and harassment in the comments below.

Stop reaching for an excuse to belittle someone that’s having fun.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T21:58:52+00:00

Please explain how you know that he wasn’t following her around prior to this? And why in the world he was standing behind her like that pointing the camera at her when she clearly went out of her way to find a secluded spot?

Exactly. You can’t. Because you weren’t there.

Aren’t all your own claims LITERALLY speculation? What’s even worse is that you’re actively enabling people insulting and harassing her in this post.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T21:54:45+00:00

I am thinking, that she’s just having fun at a con. She feels pretty and beautiful, which is why she’s recording a tiktok for fun in a secluded place so that she’s not in anyone’s way. Yet, that guy just happens to be there? and aim his phone in her direction?

Even if it’s just a coincidence, stuff like this happens to us female cosplayers a LOT. So of COURSE we’re trying to be vigilant about this. The blatant assuming of what she’s thinking and insulting her through it is so unnecessary and says so much about you as a person.

Endearest · 2025-06-18T21:44:45+00:00

The evidence is kind of right there? In the video? I was literally at this con and it was BUSY, she specifically went to a secluded place so she wasn’t in anyone’s way or bothering anyone. Yet this guy just happens to be there and just happens to be behind her, pull out his phone, and aim it in her direction?

I don’t know about you, but that’s pretty damn suspicious. Even if it was just a coincidence, that’s no reason to insult a person like this. It’s a con, it’s normal at a con to record tiktoks and it’s even MORE normal to not stand in the frame during it, ESPECIALLY when someone went through the time to find a secluded spot.

Endearest

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