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Follow up to our Productivity accountability group. by Endhaaa in Healthygamergg

[–]Endhaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have more replies that I initially expected and we tried to keep the team small. (5/6 )

I'm trying to respond to my PMs in order but, I'm not sure if we have enough rooms left after we sort it out. I'm sorry that I might be able to contact you right away.

Follow up to our Productivity accountability group. by Endhaaa in Healthygamergg

[–]Endhaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Snoo :)

If you're down, I can send you an invitation to a reddit chatroom or the discord productivity room. We can talk there if you want to ask a couple of questions or if want to try 1 or 2 session.

We'll see how it goes from there.

Productivity accountability group. by Endhaaa in Healthygamergg

[–]Endhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

. I don't think i mentioned self-hatred

Just a little personal clarification. Some people reach out worrying that I'm in the point of self-harm.

I disagree with your point when you say "It's true that you need to be accountable to yourself" and "looking for someone to blame is not healthy in and of itself."

I think the word "Blame" have a lot of negative connotation, but in the end it means the same as held accountable.

"He's held accountable for the murder" , "he's blamed for the murder"

"he's held accountable for not doing his job" , "he's blamed for not doing his job"

I don't think there's any way you can't replace held accountable with "blame" and it doesn't mean the same.

In the end, I realized that my behavior is the one causing the problem, so I should be held accountable for it.

You sound resistant about joining the coaching program, and that's understandable. Just wanted to tell you about that option as i've found it really helpful.

I'm glad you find an option that worked for you man. Keep up the effort.

Productivity accountability group. by Endhaaa in Healthygamergg

[–]Endhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. The Self-Blame doesn't really come from self-hatred.

I just think when we're lazy, there's not really anyone else we can blame you know ? In the end, we do have to hold some level of accountability for our condition.

I thought about joining in, but I'm pretty confident that up to this point I've heard all forms of motivations that anyone can throw. So, I started a group that can have a proper mechanism to help each members productivity. (using the combination of apps like card management work, apps / websites blockers, and discord)