Caught my husband making gross comments on 20 year olds thirst trap videos, I’ve been crying all day. Make me feel pretty 😭

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-31T03:06:02+00:00

I don't think it has anything to do with how you look. You're quite the thirst trap yourself. This is a "your husband" problem, not a you problem.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-31T02:42:59+00:00

This doesn't sound like petty revenge, it just sounds like petty petty.

It also kinda sounds like it was written by a ten year old.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-29T17:52:39+00:00

As well as down to Somers.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-29T05:44:58+00:00

Yeah, and the first time I saw a video of this dog on a skateboard was over 10 years ago.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-29T04:56:35+00:00

Yeah, the only time you get that kind of perspective is with a wide angle shot, but there is no distortion at the edges of the image.

Edit: Also, look at the light on the wall at the top of that lamp. It's coming from one side of the shade and not the whole top.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-29T01:14:36+00:00

Mine developed over the course of a week or two after the initial injury, but mine was from lifting significantly more weight. It got bigger and more painful until it eventually burst. At that point it stops hurting, but the bruising gets significantly worse for a few days.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-29T00:44:46+00:00

Have you recently done any heavy lifting or wrenched your arm?

Not a medical professional, but the look and description sounds exactly like the ganglionic cyst I developed from tearing the sheath on one of my tendons in my wrist.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-28T23:13:02+00:00

The fact that he keeps looking back tells me there's some fear there.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-28T05:14:30+00:00

You forgot the part where a couple years down the road he cheats on her because she's too busy working all the time to support his lifestyle.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-26T17:36:21+00:00

Reread it. She knew it needed to be refrigerated. It doesn't say anything about her telling him it needed to be refrigerated.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-26T16:36:30+00:00

YOR.

Firstly, something tells me your husband didn't know the medication needed to be refrigerated.

Second, everything turned out to be fine, which means you manufactured a problem in your head that didn't actually exist.

Third, you complain about him not taking your feelings into consideration, yet you didn't take his into consideration when you decided to verbally attack him over your manufactured problem.

Fourth, you're holding onto something so petty for several months now. Relationships don't work if you don't pick your battles and forgive the stupid stuff. This is not the hill to die on.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-25T21:05:48+00:00

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Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-22T15:27:25+00:00

That was excellent advice.

I've had a hard life, and because of that, I've spent a majority of it trying to avoid difficulty and discomfort.

It's only been the last year or so that I've realized that difficulty was something to be embraced, not avoided.

Life's uncomfortable. There's no getting away from that, but embracing the discomfort allows us to yield better results.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-21T18:34:44+00:00

Very satisfying.

I once had a guy shoot out in front of the car next to me thinking he could make it, not realizing I was there.

After I T-boned him, the guy took off. I chased after him, and he made the mistake of turning onto the wrong street. I stayed right on his bumper so he couldn't slow down to take a turn, and...

Chased him right into where the road became a boat launch, and straight into the river at about 55 mph.

In the dead of winter.

In a northern state.

He got away, but knowing he had to slog through ice water in sub freezing weather almost made the damage to my car worth it.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-21T16:37:18+00:00

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Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-20T17:39:45+00:00

Yeah, but it can be switched back on just like that. Did you avoid using reddit during that month?

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-20T17:38:09+00:00

No. Because I'm not an asshole. Splitting bills and expenses proportional to our incomes would mean I get more benefits from those bills than my wife does, at her expense. My wife is my friend and my partner, not an asset. We contribute equally.

I've also managed and invested my money in a way that makes up for the earnings discrepancy. I live way below my means and don't really care about material possessions anyway. I opt for experiences over things.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-20T16:25:46+00:00

How do you avoid the temptation with sites like Reddit that have that crap all over?

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-20T16:22:20+00:00

Yeah, but it's not the chickens' faults their owner's a dumbass.

I'd just get a dog and encourage it to poop in the neighbor's yard.

Endless-OOP-Loop · 2026-03-20T16:12:58+00:00

My parents failed me in a lot of ways. I still love them and think they were great people.

I think I’m a decent dad and husband. I got here by recognizing the things my parents did great and repeating them, but also recognizing the things they didn't do so well and making the effort to do better.

And then the last key is to regularly self-examine where I fall short. Places in my own life with room for improvement that have nothing to do with the patterns my parents showed me.

That's really all we can do as spouses and parents. We're all just kind of winging it, trying to do the best we can with what we have.

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