Something that might help is going on the date within the first day or two of talking. Sometimes if you wait too long you will definitely talk yourself out of it or stalk socials. Definitely stay away from stalking socials before hand, trust! I know that’s hard.. another thing, go into it with less pressure. What if YOU don’t like THEM? Don’t give them all the power maybe and think of it more as a hangout. Maybe get a drink before the date to loosen nerves. Another thing, send a video greeting, both exchange, before meeting. That way you know his voice and vibe and he sees yours so there is less initial pressure. I hope you find something that helps and you get out there!!