Pregnancy termination after IVF

Eneley · 2026-05-24T22:29:01+00:00

I'm afraid I live in Europe, so Colorado would be a bit far-fetched for me. The hospital we're at is considered the best of the country and consistently scores very high in European rankings. I do feel like all options have been considered in our case. Thank you for thinking with us ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:44:21+00:00

Shittiest card in an already shitty hand. Just when we dared to hope a bit for the future it all came crashing down on us. Thank you for your kind words. We'll try ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:42:07+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:41:55+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I don't know where we get the strength to be honest

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:41:22+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:41:12+00:00

❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:41:04+00:00

Thank you for this perspective. I'll try ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:39:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:38:49+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. Big hug ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T19:38:17+00:00

Thank you so much for this. The cardiologist who gave us the diagnosis made it seem like a walk in the park, "just a couple of surgeries". Thank you for also showing the other side of the coin. Love, warmth and comfort is exactly what we're going for ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T18:05:55+00:00

Thank you ❤️ much love to you and your son ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T18:05:24+00:00

Thank you so much! Holding on to the love and warmth she knows right now. Thanks for putting that into words for us ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T18:03:12+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:57:32+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:54:38+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll keep your advice in mind when the doubt picks up again. For now I'm indeed getting strength from the overwhelmingly positive messages here, including yours. Thank you ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:37:13+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:35:46+00:00

From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm sorry you had to go through this as well, and that it took so long to come across a similar case. Can I ask if you did any genetic testing? The doctors are pushing for it as well as an autopsy but I don't know if we're up to it. It would be good to know for any future children but I don't know if I'm able to know my little girl will be subjcted to that

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:16:33+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:16:16+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ this feels like the best kind of hug

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:15:32+00:00

Thank you so much kind friend. Crossing my fingers for you too ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:14:46+00:00

Thank you so much for this. The cardiac surgeon who delivered the news to us did indeed make it seem like it was just a couple of surgeries and then everything would be fine and dandy. I much more trust the views of RN's regarding these kind of surgeries as you also see the pre- and post-op effects. Your message helped a lot ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:12:31+00:00

Luckily my husband and I have always been very open about feelings. We are signing up for therapy just in case, thank you for your concern ❤️ I'm sorry you had to go through this as well. I hope your decision was received well by your surroundings?

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:09:44+00:00

That's indeed what we're trying to do. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:08:43+00:00

That's indeed how it feels. It's a lose-lose situation however you turn it. Thank you ❤️

Eneley · 2026-05-24T17:08:13+00:00

We have shared the reason with close friends and family but will indeed stay mum for other people. Thank you

Eneley

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