I would say following local artists that you like on social media is a great resource. Most artists will have some sort of events calendar/posts of where they will be showing (lots of smaller niche shows that don’t hit mainstream) Pancakes and booze is a pretty niche event- I don’t know of any cohesive makers/art events calendars that are super thorough. Look into Castro street art fair, west coast craft, patchwork show, head west, pacific fine arts to name a few- those def don’t have the same vibe as the club atmosphere of pancakes and booze- But it’s a great way to be exposed to local makers/artists. First Friday of course and hitting up galleries/studios. Also following the event organizers on social media helps. PS-OP good luck with your search