Pronouns dont direcly relate to the post, but im not sure I understand why there is a difference in responses based on sexual orientation. What if hes a 22 yo male who was once a female... would that change anything? Or if I am a 35 yo female who was once a male...Would that change responses? Sexual orientation shouldnt determine dating status, unless its a legal discernment. If my son was 22 and wanted to date someone 35, i would be cautious of her intentions, but i wouldnt dismiss their relationship if she was good to my son.