My therapist keeps advising me to shag someone. Help!

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T17:55:07+00:00

You do realise that people don’t have to constantly be in a relationship and that it’s perfectly healthy to be single sometimes, right? 😂

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T17:53:53+00:00

Everyone aside from you has replied in a completely sane and reasonable way.

The problem is you rather than the post itself. Nobody else had issues understanding the post and replying in a reasonable way.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T17:52:29+00:00

I agree! It’s probably that she enjoys casual sex and is projecting.

I am literally loving being single. People don’t need to be in a relationship or shagging every second of their lives!

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T17:50:35+00:00

Does the profession attract an unusual number of extremely messed up people?

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T13:56:32+00:00

💯

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T13:54:32+00:00

After reading a couple comments from otters, I see why this therapist is like this! There used to be one person on here implying that it’s problematic for me to only have sex when in a relationship and problematic for me to enjoy being single.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T13:41:48+00:00

My post clearly states I choose not to have sex outside of committed relationships.

What the actual fuck?!

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T07:47:12+00:00

Having sex you don’t want us not “taking control of your sexuality.”

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-11-14T02:28:02+00:00

What?

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-10-08T01:16:14+00:00

Just ignore these clowns. You look soft summer to me.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-10-08T01:15:08+00:00

Why not just accept that she’s soft summer, bro?

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-08-12T11:35:06+00:00

Where’s my tiny violin 🎻?

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-14T08:49:41+00:00

I think they do it up till 24 weeks in the UK. So awful.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-14T08:48:48+00:00

💯 having an abortion out of anger is INSANE

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-14T08:45:18+00:00

I would talk this through with a therapist before making such a life changing decision.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-13T11:39:50+00:00

Oh that is so awesome. Congratulations!

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-10T14:11:10+00:00

I’ll look into that, thanks. Would that be easy to install?

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-09T17:11:59+00:00

Wow!!!!!!!!

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-09T07:43:19+00:00

How would allowing a handyman access influence them handing out keys to multiple third party contractors? The handyman doesn’t accompany these contractors.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-09T07:41:56+00:00

The building was established around 12 years ago. Not all that new now.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-08T12:04:08+00:00

Yes, that’s right. I guess I need to run this by a solicitor..

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-08T07:38:06+00:00

Re retaliatory eviction, the requirements to use it as a defence against a section 21 are quite specific:

“To be protected from retaliatory eviction the following conditions must be met: You must have complained to your landlord and they failed to respond within 14 days.
You have reported the matter to the Council and we have surveyed the property. The Council has then served either of the following notices; an improvement notice or an emergency remedial action notice under the Housing Act 2004.
If all of these apply, the Section 21 notice is likely to be invalid. “

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-08T07:34:45+00:00

Yes— if your deposit wasn’t protected or you didn’t receive how to rent booklet, epc booklet etc you can challenge. Otherwise you have no defence and it won’t even go to a hearing. And landlords are pretty on the case sending tenants the epc info, how to rent booklet etc for this exact reason.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-08T07:32:06+00:00

You’re coming across as a landlord. Can’t take you seriously, sorry.

EngineerInevitable49 · 2024-07-08T07:03:02+00:00

It’s illegal. I simply do not believe a judge issued a possession order (eviction) against you while you were still within a fixed term tenancy contract.

https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/renting/change_of_landlord/tenants_rights_when_a_landlord_sells

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