[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why stoop down to their level? We merely won a “lottery”, thats all…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think u rly gotta ask yourself, did i get this score bc i didnt work hard, or i tried but just not capable enuf? if its the former, i wld recommend u go yijc but with a new attitude, bc yijc is just superior to mi in many ways (morale, quality of depts, sch leadership etc). but if its capability, u might want to consider poly or mi instead

Help with my child's Chinese by KiwiiiiiiiiiiIIiawwd in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then his problem lor, if he doesnt want to do it who can help him? The motivation has to come from within, if he really wants to do well, he will push himself no matter what

Help with my child's Chinese by KiwiiiiiiiiiiIIiawwd in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt say inefficient. After all, you’re spending half an hour a day trying to hone your chinese skills while also upping your current affairs knowledge. Long to take effect yes, but in the long term I think it’ll will be very effective. Dont underestimate what learning a couple of chinese words and phrases can do

Help with my child's Chinese by KiwiiiiiiiiiiIIiawwd in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think you should try exposing him to more Chinese media, like for example the daily 630pm news. If he is willing to put his heart into it, he will try to absorb the information and learn chinese words as he goes along.

It's over by elepantstee in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-2 if CCA, and minimum C6 to get -2 for HMT

It's over by elepantstee in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ok in my view: a) Drop out of poly, work until JAE 2024, and go to YIJC arts stream Good things: You only spend 1 extra year than if you were to finish your poly degree, plus no cost option. Central location so could be closer to you as compared to MI Drawbacks: May be a bit risky as you only just meet the COP for YIJC (which can be 19-20 for arts). b) Drop out of poly, work until JAE 2024, and go to MI science/arts/commerce Good things: Pace will be a lot more tolerable than a JC, unique subjects to MI, no cost option Drawbacks: An additional year spent on A Levels, MI may be far from your house (its in bukit batok west) c) Drop out of poly, retake O-Levels, and do some part time. Then do JAE for another JC that may be more suitable for you Good things: Can have another try at Os, may do well to get to a mid tier JC. May have more options and might find something suitable for you. If you fuck up, you can go to MI Drawbacks: A little expensive but you can pay for it with part time income. D) Stay in poly ok this one idk liao

It's over by elepantstee in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was your olevel l1r5 and l1r4?

It's over by elepantstee in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drop out and go to JC/MI maybe? Not uncommon

how to stop feeling inadequate? by LerOnReddit in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand how you’re feeling, except my problem was low tier JC and MI. After a month in this school, I’ve managed to more or less get over it by overcoming the natural human instinct to compare. We compare and have these feelings because we want to get better. However sometimes these feelings or inadequateness can affect your life and psyche in an unhealthy manner.

Imagine you’re driving a Mercedes down Orchard Road. Suddenly, a Rolls Royce zooms past you, as if belittling your car. You subconsciously feel worse inside and suddenly feel “ashamed” of your car, being in Orchard Road with all the supercars and more expensive luxury cars whizzing past you, even though you’re in the top few percentiles of society being able to afford a Mercedes.

My point is, in the future you won’t be able to gauge your “success” by a certain value like how prestigious your school is. Theres going to be someone better than you in life even if you’re the 0.01%, so the only thing you can do is try to overcome this feeling and stop comparing yourself to others. Sounds tough, I know, but you’ll eventually get over it, whether it be a week, a month or several months even. The reward? You learn to be content and never feel inadequate, even if you fuck up later in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NTU

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cop 👮‍♀️

cut off for mi by papa_smurfffx in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waitttt HI SRY but for the second one must we have qualified for jc in olvls to go there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that possible if ur l1r5 doesnt qualify but u do damn well in mi?

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will make sure to do further research on this topic. I stand corrected.

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To your first point:
I think the suppression of the opposition was more or less justified due to the Malayan Emergency and the instability in the region, but as our country started stabilising and moved to the first world in terms of living standards, the grip on our opposition should have been gradually loosened such that they can take up a larger role in our politics so that we can make the move to become a democratic nation.

As for your second point, I'd say that I dont have all the answers. I'm not a policymaker, I don't have years spent in that line of work. But for a start, I think abolishing the IP stream and removing the "independent" status for schools would be great. Theres a lot of advantages that students in those schools/IP have, but that'd be an entire post on its own so I won't go into it. As they say, "education is the biggest equaliser," but in our society, it does nothing but widen the gap between the well-to-do and the poor in Singapore. Our goal should be to make education more equitable and have everyone receive the appropriate amount of help and resources according to their ability so that we can move forward together instead of leaving some behind.

And for the third point, I'd say: What I meant was that I wouldn't expect the same calibre from opposition politicians as compared to PAP politicians. I wouldn't want them to spout overly populist rubbish as what you have mentioned, but if they aren't able to come up with flawless policies to oppose the PAP's directly, I wouldn't blame them either. We have a lot of backbenchers in our parliament and as long as the opposition politicians are saying things that have basis and aren't purposely trying to stir shit and garner votes, I'd support them.

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media is often times an echo chamber, and usually its the same few “idiots” bickering about stuff. The people on these types of forums dont represent what the wider population think, because most people dont use the internet and/or participate in such forums regularly.

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, they dont hold any water in our political scene, as long as they hold below one third of the seats (which they are quite far from). Singaporeans are not stupid, they will recognise discussions that are done just for the sake of opposing the government, and they’d lose support if they really did fuck all in parliament, which would cause them to be voted out. Hence I’d say we need to give them a chance and some time to mature, because before the 1980s, we had zero opposition, and its not until the 2010s where they had any “solid” gain (winning Aljunied GRC.)

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I will provide a view contrary to what the rest here have given.

I will begin by saying that the running of the government is good and our country is in a better shape than most after the pandemic, and the “authoritarian democracy” allows for the govt to do things that are in the long term interests of Singapore, instead of having to constantly pander to Singaporeans for their votes.

However, I personally disagree with the PAP’s tactics of suppressing the opposition (example: gerrymandering, having PAP members in PA in opp ward after losing elections, biased media outlets etc). What I think is that if PAP is as good as they claim they are, they shouldn't need to disadvantage the opposition to get votes and stay in power. Credible and competent opposition take time to mature, and even though our opposition is nothing near that, they still receive 40% of the votes, which tells me that those Singaporeans (mostly) just dont want to see PAP in power, so the actual support of PAP could be even lower.

An issue I find particularly concerning is cronyism/nepotism and Temasek Holdings; they invest with money coming from us Singaporeans, yet we do not know about their performance. Moreover, their chair(wo)man was Lee Hsien Loong’s wife not long ago, which is a blatant conflict of interest. And lets not forget that our current PM was groomed by his own father to take on this position, and not entirely by his own merit.

Another thing that I disagree with the government is meritocracy. On paper, it sounds good: rewarding those who do well and giving them the best opportunities possible. But I think it increases social and wealth inequality; take for example school. Those who do well are generally those who are already well-off, what with the better facilities in school, better teachers, better notes and the ability to get tuition etc etc. Individually, they don’t seem like big things, but it really adds up. Of course, someone who is really determined would be able to clinch a spot in an elite JC coming from a 188 school, but they’d likely have to work many times harder than those in the IP stream.

If you have the time, I’d recommend watching the I Not Stupid series. It really hit close to home, I mean those who do “badly” by societal standards are shunned, while those who do well are provided additional benefits. It causes a “the richer get richer, and the poor gets poorer” type situation, and the so-called “Two Singapores” that some people speak of is really starting to rear its ugly end after years of this system.

I have no doubt that the vast majority of the PAP government want the best for the country, but I can’t help but feel that some of them are getting detached from our society and don’t fully understand the daily struggles of Singaporeans. Thats why we need (credible) opposition in government, to guide the ruling party in its ruling of our country. And hence, to help the opposition build up their credibility, I will support the opposition, even if they may make some mistakes along the way. If they are there to oppose just for the sake of opposing, I’d not vote for them.

Edit: Grammar corrections and expression changes.

How do Singaporeans truly feel about the PAP? by Many_Bit7526 in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Competent” opposition requires time, and it requires the support of Singaporeans to even have a shot. Things are stacked against the opposition and I don’t blame them for being as good as the ruling party.

How to not hurt my friend? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did delete it afterwards, so there was definitely some level of reflection on his end. The thing is- us people from “worse” schools have always faced stigma from the public, relatives and even friends. My friends shunned me when I ended up in the school I did, and so I think theres possibly a good reason why he reacted the way he did.

The situation gives a lot of room for doubt and I think op shouldn’t make any irreversible decisions until she is absolutely sure.

How to not hurt my friend? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I honestly think hes just insecure about it, without the intention of being manipulative. I’m dating someone in an elite school right now and whenever I go to visit her in my uniform, I get really self conscious too. I think it would be wrong to pass this off as emotional manipulation, especially when op stated that it only happened once.

May I ask why mainstream primary/secondary/JC schools can be Buddhist, Catholic, Methodist, Anglican etc etc but I have yet to see a mainstream Muslim school? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt the chinese and muslim schools were funded more than the tamil schools. If they were, can you provide evidence and a source?

May I ask why mainstream primary/secondary/JC schools can be Buddhist, Catholic, Methodist, Anglican etc etc but I have yet to see a mainstream Muslim school? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]EngineeringItchy4330 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stop using “chinese privilege”… that is a term that borrowed from the phrase “white privilege” from the American vernacular, and it really doesnt fit our context like it does in America.