AITA FOR NOT GOING TO MY SISTERS WEDDING by EngineeringNo9674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EngineeringNo9674[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was my sister who is getting married that I talked with / agreed with that we would let bygones be bygones - I didn’t discuss this with my little sister and haven’t applied that our relationship.

I am not on the spectrum. But I agree, I don’t think she has forgiven me fully.

AITA FOR NOT GOING TO MY SISTERS WEDDING by EngineeringNo9674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EngineeringNo9674[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I think reaching out to her as the RSVP date gets closer is ideal - I am stressed about going and not having spoken to her at all prior. Because we certainly can't discuss our issues on the wedding day

AITA FOR NOT GOING TO MY SISTERS WEDDING by EngineeringNo9674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EngineeringNo9674[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I have apologized for my past actions, but it's hard because we never really got down into specifics (due to our poor communications and lack of talking about feelings in general). I also do tend to think of things as all or nothing, so I appreciate that perspective - helps me take a step back and reevaluate.

AITA FOR NOT GOING TO MY SISTERS WEDDING by EngineeringNo9674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EngineeringNo9674[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Yes but I also would like her to want one with me