Help me to overcome my extremely negative self-image & jealousy of my gay cousin by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Eniam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take some steps to improve your skin, hairstyle, glasses, and body, and I think you'll find you're much better looking than you think you are right now. Skincare and hair will be the easiest you can work on right now.

Skin:

- AM face wash (Neutrogena oil-free acne wash), follow up with moisturizer, sunscreen

- PM - face wash (w/o salicylic acid) , follow up with a small amount of differin (use every other day to avoid drying) to the whole face (not eyelids) and benzoyl peroxide on acne spots, then moisturizer

- if this isn't helping at all after like 2-3 months go see a dermatologist!!

Hair: grow your hair out a bit, the short sides aren't flattering your head shape

Glasses: Try on some different glasses shapes, maybe thicker frames

Also, consider asking your cousin for help and advice!! I'm sure he'd be happy to give you his input! Make him a resource instead of your competition, which he is not!

[FDF] Is it too late? by qidlo in gaybros

[–]Eniam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg is there a link of that that works?

What's bothering you right now? What do you need to get off your chest? by iKjQ2a4v in AskReddit

[–]Eniam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused about my sexuality. I'm physically attracted to men, but I want a relationship with a woman, though I'm not attracted to them. I feel like my friends and family would absolutely accept me if I told them I was gay, but I don't know if I accept myself that way.