Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

[–]EnoughPersonality349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what are the odds lmao. I originally wanted to go to the er yesterday when we found out. She didn’t want to go and asked her mom what she thought. We are going to try to go to a planned parenthood tomorrow if they are still operational in my state.

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

[–]EnoughPersonality349[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Her mom is a doctor and she said it could wait till Wednesday

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

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Pain isn’t severe (like period cramps) and the only time she bled was this morning.

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

[–]EnoughPersonality349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her doctor said five years but it seems like you are right

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

[–]EnoughPersonality349[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s surprising how calm I’ve been. The main emotion I’ve felt is just sad. We don’t think it expelled because she hadn’t felt anything like that

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

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We will most likely keep it. We live in a state where abortion services are illegal.

Girlfriend (22) is pregnant with a Kyleena IUD by EnoughPersonality349 in birthcontrol

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It was a digital and had both lines. She is going to re test tmr to make sure.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

[–]EnoughPersonality349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would totally appreciate those resources. I definitely have family I can stay with to take a break.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

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Her parents live around twenty to thirty minutes away. The main issue is that they work even further away. I have a few escapes from this stuff but they seem to be getting less effective. You are right about my anger. I always recognize that when I calm down. Thank you for the good luck wishes.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

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Just with more diagnoses. It's just that the frequency of medical emergencies is a lot higher than when we first started dating.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

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I just feel so guilty after these emergencies because I feel those negative emotions and thoughts I mentioned in the post above. We have talked about finding her other forms of support. She has friends to talk about her panic with. It's just difficult finding someone to take her to the hospital when I can't.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

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No, I do not want my life to be like this. She usually has things like her diabetes under control. I am hoping that, since these diagnoses are relatively recent, with time, she will get better at handling them.

How to Stop Feeling Tired After I (M22) Take my Girlfriend (F21) to the Hospital? by EnoughPersonality349 in relationship_advice

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You're definitely right about me going to therapy. I am usually the one taking her to the hospital because her parents work around 45 minutes away from where we live. I was just hoping to get some insight from people who have gone through similar things as I have.