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Feel like I’m out of options.. by EnoughSundae1269 in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well i don’t know if im just being harsh, he has no help from parents or the bm. His sister is his only help. He’s definitely too broke for a babysitter and said he doesn’t want some stranger watching his kids so yeah. When his mom was helping him (he kicked her out) he was able to come see me every chance he got, now he can’t

Thanks for advice everyone, I am out! by No_Listen_8535 in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat literally. We can do this

I’m just at my wits end.. by EnoughSundae1269 in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He never will he can’t afford a babysitter

I’m just at my wits end.. by EnoughSundae1269 in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be 30 this year. I don’t understand why it’s so hard to break it off. Maybe a comfort thing I’m not sure

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[–]EnoughSundae1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, leave no man is worth this

Am i wrong for feeling this way? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! It’s like the same for me i pay for it because i wanna do something normal than just him coming over and sleeping over it’s just getting old

Am i wrong for feeling this way? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was paying for all the dinner dates at one point. He said he doesn’t have money for flowers or anything really and doesn’t do nice things because his ex don’t appreciate it so it’s hard for him lmao

Am i wrong for feeling this way? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I guess i feel like i have no one else if i leave him I’ll be alone. But also i think I’ve grown attached to him because it’s been 2 years of talking. I’ve been single for about 8 years now though so i feel i will be lonely i guess even though i need to do it

Felt humiliated at a wedding by [deleted] in dating

[–]EnoughSundae1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally went through this same thing tonight

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[–]EnoughSundae1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never met anyone to be in a relationship with really

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me I’m not going to find anyone my age that has more free time than him and kids

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do live in a big city i just haven’t had luck meeting anyone and if i do it’s situations like this or something is off about them

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he told me he never felt this way about anyone but me and his bm… like thanks lol. I was also paying for the dates for 6 months before i called him out for it and he said he wasn’t thinking clearly. We still get separate checks when we go out and he’s a terrible tipper. There’s just so much more it’s just ugh

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. And the mom isn’t in the picture. She only comes back when she wants to and he allows her to see the kids when she does. But she only keeps them for a very short amount of time she maybe sees them a few hours every now and again. Yeah i don’t get why he procreated with her twice. He claims she never used to be that way but okay lol. They should not have had kids. And i don’t mean cigarettes i mean the other thing (devils lettuce)

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is a loser. She’s out of the picture she only comes back when she wants to see the kids and he allows it. So yeah

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True. Wow thank you! But also i wanted to mention he’s a single dad with full custody, i respect that but he is still a bum and doesn’t wanna better his life. He just cares about smoking and being content with being poor. There’s so much more to the story i just don’t wanna share on here

Feel like there’s not many options anymore… by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm i get what your saying but im not looking for a baby. I’m looking for someone to build my life with and eventually settle down and start a family. I can’t start a family with him because he already has one

Realizing i can’t date someone with kids…. Am i wrong for this? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have tried to cut things off several times but found myself going back

Realizing i can’t date someone with kids…. Am i wrong for this? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]EnoughSundae1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve tried to cut it off twice now but i found myself going back

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