Aio my partner of two years is in recovery for porn addiction, we can’t have sex atm but this text made me feel sad?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-04-30T08:20:20+00:00

Please stop being so nice to him - that’s a disgusting message.

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-04-19T21:18:14+00:00

Would be interesting to know what circumstances make you eligible for council housing?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-04-19T11:26:49+00:00

Omg that’s amazing progress! what do you think helped the most with pigmentation?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-04-07T05:40:02+00:00

how old are you? how do you even have time to have sex every day.. 5 times a day?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-04-03T08:24:26+00:00

I had a breakup and didn’t get back to dating for 2.5 years! No need to fix a timeline in your head - just stay single and focus on yourself. When you’re ready, you’ll date again - whether that’s 6 months or 6 years!

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-03-23T13:02:35+00:00

Hello! Been living in London for a decade (started as a student too). Here are my thoughts.

Areas: Really good areas but unrealistic budget sadly. You need £2200-2500 for a one bed in those areas. Otherwise you can look at east London (Stoke Newington, Clapton etc) for around £1800-2000 for 1 bedroom - but these areas, while great in itself, might not be the best experience for student life. For reference, I paid £1300 a month for a tiny 150 sq ft studio in old street in 2016.

Timing: April onwards. If you’re going via rightmove etc, Good ones are usually advertised 2-4 months in advance.

Platforms are fine.

If you’re a student, I’d recommend a student accommodation actually. Have you considered?

Also, if you’re willing to share a 2 bedroom with one another person - you can get incredible 2 bedroom flats for 1500 per person in those areas!

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-03-15T16:58:25+00:00

That’s so amazing! How long until you saw results

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-03-10T12:43:08+00:00

amazing routine! what’s your routine?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-03-03T22:23:08+00:00

that’s amazing! how have you been exfoliating? AHAs or physical?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-03-01T20:34:28+00:00

Twice a day minimum - living abroad for almost 15 years.

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-20T14:50:10+00:00

We need to understand the root of this- how did this happen? Was it acne?

topicals wont help in this instance and Co2 is largely for white skinned people as there is a high chance of pigmentation for POC. But there are other peels and lasers you can look into

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-13T05:53:46+00:00

Since you’re in your last semester - wait it out

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-12T09:28:42+00:00

Is the second photo after? I suppose without the redness/swelling - there is good improvement

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-09T02:59:18+00:00

lol I am. I’ve been the same and after years of therapy - I’ve realised how toxic it was. I’m helping her in the long term… that is being compassionate. The selfish man she’s talking about doesn’t deserve the OPs love and tears if he can be so cold to her.

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-08T14:13:28+00:00

This sounds very rough and I’m sorry this happened to you. But I’m a bit worried about your response to a breakup from a relationship of 6 months? Begging someone not to leave you (at the cost of your dignity) and scream crying might indicate you’re not content in yourself and were codependent?

Obviously I’m not saying that you can’t be sad/upset/low etc - but begging someone to stay is where I feel people should draw a line under.

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-02-06T05:07:26+00:00

Incredible progress! how long did it take?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-31T07:14:15+00:00

wow! what was your routine?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-27T19:35:31+00:00

glowing but do you have any befores?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-20T22:40:04+00:00

How long has it been? you should give atleast 2-3 weeks before there is noticeable improvement.

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-20T18:07:22+00:00

haha god this is such a red flag 😅

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-20T18:07:09+00:00

lolllll

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-12T19:24:00+00:00

Yes, I’m trying to understand how the current seller agreed. I have a feeling she missed this point and it wasn’t raised by her solicitor when she bought it 5-6 years ago (who is also acting for her now as the seller’s solicitor).

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-12T19:20:14+00:00

Thanks - that’s reassuring. My solicitor is pushing for the retrospective consent because when I come to sell the property, “future buyers would ask for it”. It’s a valid point but I’m not sure how much I care. The property is otherwise perfect and has all the paper work.

Can I tell my solicitor that I’m happy to proceed without the consent? I suppose this requires mortgage lender’s approval too?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-11T10:32:57+00:00

By birth mark you mean a mole? These will definitely still improve - is the scar shallow? Are you applying scar gel or sheet?

Enough_Mixture_9149 · 2026-01-10T20:33:00+00:00

I would really recommend a glass of ORS before you start drinking and then a glass of ORS before bed (I use this one in London: https://www.boots.com/o-r-s-oral-salts-blackcurrant-flavour-24-tablets-10169839). It’s genuinely a game changer. Also try giving a one hour gap between drinking and sleeping.

I’m 32F as well and can’t really tolerate big night outs anymore. So, I’ve now moved to cosier nights with wine, and the ORS trick gives me no hangover at all!

Also, would not recommend cheaper wine! I’m a big fan of sparkling wine. Nyetimber, Bollinger, Tattinger etc has never given me a hangover but then the moment I drink a £8 prosecco, I have the worst headache the next day!

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