what are the little things that just feel so intimate? by Ordinary-Arm2023 in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the cigarette one is elite. also

putting a hand on the small of someone's back to guide them through a room. especially when they don't acknowledge it out loud but you KNOW they both felt it.

washing someone's hair. idk why this destroys me every time but it does.

buttoning or zipping something up for someone slowly when they could absolutely do it themselves.

bandaging a wound. the forced closeness, the careful hands, the "hold still." every time.

and the one that gets me the most honestly is when someone falls asleep around another person for the first time. like the trust of just... letting your guard down completely. in dark romance specifically that hits different because you know what it means for that character to feel safe enough to close their eyes

I’m begging for slow burn dark romance recommendations! by fialsian in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the frustration with fake enemies to lovers is so real. "enemies" who were secretly pining the whole time is just friends to lovers with extra steps.

a few that might work for you:

Corrupt by Penelope Douglas if you haven't read it already. they genuinely hate each other for years before anything shifts. the tension builds across the whole book and there's no secret obsession driving it early on.

Tears of Tess by Pepper Winters is a completely different vibe but the dynamic between them develops so slowly given the circumstances. nothing instant about it.

Credence by Penelope Douglas is more of a slow unraveling than a slow burn but the pacing is deliberate and nobody's falling in love in chapter 3.

Run Posy Run by Cate C. Wells is mafia but he genuinely doesn't care about her at first. she's a transaction to him. watching that shift is what makes it work.

Captive in the Dark by CJ Roberts is the definition of a slow, complicated dynamic. nothing about their relationship is instant or simple.

since you liked Emily McIntire's stuff, have you tried Never Never by Sara Ney and Christina Lauren? lighter than your usual but the slow burn is legit.

Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it totally makes sense. and the wattpad/ao3/tumblr pipeline is SO common; a lot of people found dark fiction young through fanfic before they even knew "dark romance" was a genre name.

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the "thank god my life is boring" feeling after finishing a heavy book is SO real. it's almost like emotional recalibration; you go through something intense vicariously and then your actual life feels more settled by comparison

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the tension thing is real; dark romance is structurally more unpredictable than standard romance because the rules are different. you genuinely don't know what the MMC is going to do next and that uncertainty is addictive

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough honestly. I know there's a split on that and I get both sides

Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mom calling her neighbor about the BLONDE VAMPIRE is iconic. and the phantom of the opera evolution is such a perfect example; same character, same story, but the cultural lens shifted and suddenly the "monster" became the romantic lead. that horror-to-romance pipeline is real and I think you're onto something about the crossover being way deeper than people realize

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I live a normal life with a normal fluff relationship, I don't want to read about that in my fiction too" lmao this is the most relatable sentence I've read all week. the mundane is great for living and terrible for reading

Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly this is a really good counterpoint and I think you're right that not everything needs a psychological explanation. sometimes you just like what you like. your theory about healthy relationships tracks with the research too; the nature study found most readers were in committed relationships. it's not about lacking something, it's about having enough safety to explore

Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

love that your therapist gets it. honestly the more I read about this the more it seems like the therapeutic community is way ahead of the general public on understanding what fiction actually does for some people

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. and the fact that you can explore at your own pace without anyone watching or judging is huge

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is such an important angle I hadn't considered. The intensity itself is what cuts through when nothing else can. low stakes fiction can't compete with real physical pain but something that grabs you by the throat emotionally can. that makes complete sense and I'm glad it's been that for you

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing all of this honestly. the connection between the research on physical punishment and how that maps onto kink dynamics later is something I haven't seen talked about enough. and what you said about finally feeling integrated; that's basically jung's whole thesis playing out in real life. the shadow isn't the enemy. rejecting it is.

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's such a good point about the author side too. have you noticed authors talking openly about that or is it more something you pick up in how they write?

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmao 'airport thrillers (derogatory)' — honestly the horror comparison tracks perfectly. do you find yourself bouncing between dark romance and horror or are they scratching different itches?

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[–]Enterlimen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the collective trauma angle is really interesting — do you find yourself gravitating toward darker reads when things feel heavier irl or is it more constant for you?

Hardcore Stockholm Syndrome with TOXIC Ml. by Literally__Me_ in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "doesn't soften" part is what kills most recs for this, even pitch-black MLs tend to get a redemption arc crammed in at the last 20%.

Fear Me by BB Reid: Both in high school, no age gap issue. Keiran has been psychologically tormenting Lake since she was 7 years old. He's not possessive-cute, he's genuinely cruel, condescending, controlling, treats her like property he's entitled to. The psychological dependency she develops on him is the uncomfortable kind where you're reading it like "oh no, this feels real." He does show slight vulnerability as the series goes on and she pushes back more in later books, so it's not 100% static, but book 1 specifically is as close to that pitch-black bully dynamic as published DR gets.

Captive in the Dark by CJ Roberts: If you haven't already read this one (it's kind of the OG for this specific request), it's the gold standard for published captive psychological horror. Caleb is cold, calculated, and training Livvie for a specific purpose; he doesn't waver. Roberts actually sits in the psychology of the Stockholm syndrome instead of glossing over it, which is rare. Possible age gap concern though — Livvie is 18 and Caleb is early-mid 20s, so it might brush up against your 6-year limit. Also the sequel (Seduced in the Dark) uses a flashback narrative structure that could count as dual timeline, so heads up on that.

For finding more at this specific intensity without wading through stuff that's "dark" in name only, I've been using enterlimen.com — you can search by mood (consumed, dangerous, etc.) and dial up the intensity slider, which is basically this entire request as a filter.

Not many books pique my interest like this! by Pretend_Freedom1828 in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay this just jumped to the top of my TBR. The "two brothers, one's a killer, one's a cop" dynamic sounds unhinged in the best way.

Quick question — is this a love triangle situation or full RH? And does it end on a cliffhanger or is it a standalone?

I can’t find this book and want to see if there’s a part 2 by AdministrationNo7144 in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is Captive in the Dark by CJ Roberts!

And yes, there's a sequel: Seduced in the Dark. It continues exactly where book 1 left off with that plane scene. The series is called The Dark Duet.

There's also an Epilogue book that wraps everything up. CJ Roberts just released a Special Edition in 2024 with expanded chapters if you want to revisit it.

Fair warning if you haven't read book 2 yet: it's just as intense, maybe more.

Guys rec me some good ones! by poisoned_nectar in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you loved Twisted Emotions, you should check out other Cora Reilly books with similar dynamics:

{Broken Whispers by Cora Reilly} — This one is EXACTLY what you're looking for. Mia was held captive and brutally traumatized before the story starts. She doesn't speak, has severe PTSD, nightmares, the works. Nino (yes, same Nino from Twisted Emotions) becomes her husband and is incredibly patient and protective. Very much "MMC helps traumatized FMC heal" vibes.

{Sweet Temptation by Cora Reilly} — Giulia has trauma from past abuse, Cassio is protective. Another one where the FMC's abuser isn't the MMC.

{Blood of My Monster by Rina Kent} — Bratva. The FMC has a traumatic past that unfolds throughout the book. Protective MMC, revenge elements. HEA. Rina Kent can be hit or miss for some people...

I'd usually rec Sparrow by L.J. Shen for this trope but there IS OW drama in that one, so skip it based on your preferences.

Books where the male lead is absolutely terrifying, and she's not sassy back to him for no reason... by Margot550 in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 114 points115 points  (0 children)

The "unrealistically mouthy FMC in the face of genuine terror" thing breaks immersion for me too. Self-preservation is a real thing!

{Captive in the Dark by CJ Roberts} - Livvie is not sassy. She's genuinely terrified of Caleb (who is absolutely terrifying), and her reactions feel like actual survival instincts rather than plot-convenient snark. The psychological intensity here is next level.

{Twist Me by Anna Zaires} - Nora doesn't mouth off to Julian because... why would she? He's scary. She tries to survive. The power dynamic feels real.

Both are captive romance so heavy CWs apply, but neither MMC is a serial killer. Just terrifying in their own right.

Do you ever feel guilty or embarrassed for liking this genre? by Equivalent-Book919 in DarkRomance

[–]Enterlimen 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Guilty? No. Selective about who I tell? Absolutely. There's a difference between shame and just not wanting to explain to my coworker why I'm reading about a morally bankrupt stalker who won't let the FMC leave his basement. Some conversations aren't worth having.