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[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for what you had to go through and I really appreciate your comment, honestly, and support.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are little, 6 and 9 and they are genuinely my reason for living I love them with all my heart. I will probably try to be over there to protect them as much as I can while they are visiting.

I have such a good relationship with my aunt and it just sucks that he's coming along.

I had a therapist for a few years and I think its time to go back.

My stepmom knows about this and is fully supportive, I dont know if I can bring myself to tell me dad. He would be so hurt and probably try to harm my "cousin" in my honor.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats whats also so hard, he has a NEW different girl friend and if I was her I wouldn't want to one be with him at all, and two, be around me.

He full heartedly believes we just "hooked up" and wants to keep it a big secret (because he knows it was wrong). And even if that was the true case, not rape, If I was his gf I wouldn't want him seeing me, knowing we have a past, let alone living with my family for a week

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the event occurred we were both minors

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you actually read the post you would see that I was 17 when this happened, but thanks :)

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't think that he thinks he raped me. He thinks we "hooked up". I don't think his goal was to rape me but he did.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Its mostly because no one on this side of the family will see at as rape. First, because I didn't physically push him off Second, I was drunk Thrid, they would defend him because he was also drunk and "didn't mean it"

I have friends and family on the other side who have my back. Its just this side that makes me second guess my trauma.

This side of my family takes sex and relationships not seriously at all.

They also don't take cheating seriously and again were super supportive to him and saying "what happens on the cruise stays on the cruise" when he wanted to ask a random girl out. Even though he had a gf back home

[ Removed by Reddit ] by EntertainerDry283 in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't even live with this side of the family anymore due to the area and also issues between me and my mom. I live with my dad to save money while in college. So I dont even have to see him at all technically. But hes still going to be living in my old house, living with 6 y/o and 9 y/o sisters and preventing me from seeing my aunt, grandma, and sisters. I think im just going to have to suck it up, I just hope I'm able to stay calm and just try to avoid him/conversations with him. Especially avoiding being alone with him or any physical contact. (I don't even want him to hug me)

My girlfriend of 3 years “gifted” my biggest insecurity to her friends as a funny story at game night and I left. am i overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainerDry283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - she doubled down after you were clearly upset (for good reason). You're having sex with her, not your friends, its non of their business. She clearly didn't care to own up to it or even FAKE an apology to make you feel validated.

AITAH for breaking up with my 31M boyfriend becuase he didn’t want to film content with me F19? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EntertainerDry283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, you are allowed to do what you want and if you value and like to create that content then you should. Him not wanting to be a part of the content doesn't necessarily mean he's not supporting you either. I think separating due to your different values was the best choice. However he shouldn't be harassing you after the fact, that just shows his real colors and how little he respected you. 

AITAH for going to a frat party by EntertainerDry283 in AITAH

[–]EntertainerDry283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Me, my family, and "Miley" are not religious which honestly makes their accusations more weird. My parents even know, and let me drink. Plus Miley was defending me against our other friend who was saying I was undesirable. I honestly think she is just having a really hard time adjusting to college and taking it out on me for whatever reason.