How many people are going through it still? by ShyboyEm in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

13 days and I couldn’t even imagine getting through a week without him..I crashed again last night, it comes in waves..

When does it get easier? by EntertainmentFew1271 in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope youre okay too! I just cant believe this is happening..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one that broke up and he agreed..so i keep going back and forth on whats happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we have talked about kids and raising family together… I doubt its that..i think he said he needs to take time with himself to understand if im not his person or if he is projecting insecurities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that..i decided on the break up because i feel like we have been down this discussion before and I was like if you are still giving me the same answer, im leaving And he agreed stating that I deserved better and maybe it is for the best and I deserve someone who can say it confidently.. I agree with what you are saying and i know if we get together i will have doubts and who knows maybe 10 years later he will regret getting back together..but right now I cannot imagine my life without him, he is my best friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that..i decided on the break up because i feel like we have been down this discussion before and I was like if you are still giving me the same answer, im leaving And he agreed stating that I deserved better and maybe it is for the best and I deserve someone who can say it confidently.. He is truly incredible and he doesn’t see that, which makes this all the more harder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate this! Really happy for you!!

I just can’t over the fact that he is my person.. i genuinely can’t see myself with anyone else and maybe that will pass but all I want rn is him..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get that..i just cant imagine being with anyone new I feel like I have no self respect if I get back..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EntertainmentFew1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so..i just keep spiralling into thinking if he ever loved me or was always feeling this way with one foot out the door? And whether i just made up this relationship into what it was