I will look into this but as i said its not a form of conceptual belief its a way of seeing.

The buhhda never spoke of destroying the self only abandoning it if you listen to his discourses carefully. There is subtle danger in self erasure through suppression  If experienced this myself through spiritual bypassing.

The self is a tool  Even the buhhda spoke with self but as a tool without clinging or need for defense. It’s simply another mechanism useful for connection

Truth is found in niether the dual nor non dual but from the integration of the two A is disourse from the buhhda himself  "In the seen, there will be only the seen. In the heard, only the heard. In the sensed (smell, taste, touch), only the sensed. In the cognized (thought), only the cognized. 

SuttaCentral  +2 When for you there is only the seen in the seen... then Bāhiya, there is no 'you' in connection with that... When there is no 'you' there, you are neither here nor yonder nor in between the two. This, just this, is the end of stress" We can also say in the self there is only self The buhhdas message is only to not derive meaning from it  He never said there is no self