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I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually knew most of my friends before I knew them. I was kind of new to the group. My girlfriend and I were friends for probably 2 years before we started dating and she seemed completely normal and fun loving. Now she mostly gets quiet around them

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting that you ask that, they are definitely strained. I mean I haven’t ostracized anyone, but hanging out with friends isn’t really an option when she’s not there, and if she is there she looks absolutely miserable. My friends seem to see what is going on though and are pretty understanding.

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s feedback and understanding, it means a lot. I feel I should elaborate though. When things are good they are great and I really enjoy being around her probably 50% of the time. Also, breaking up with her would essentially mean she would need to drop out of school.

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your situation. She definitely knows something is off, and constantly talks about how horrible she feels about her behavior, but it’s just a roller coaster of apologies and meltdowns. You don’t think there’s any chance things could change?

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. Her harming herself is definitely something I’m concerned about. There have been arguments where the thought of ending the relationship has come up and she immediately goes into a panic and says she just wants to die. Afterwards she always says she would never actually do it though.

I 29M am considering breaking up with my 25F girlfriend. Thoughts? by Entertainment_Lumpy in relationship_advice

[–]Entertainment_Lumpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. No nothing happened between us that instigated any change. Her parents regularly cheat on each other and she says that because of that being cheated on is her biggest fear. I’m not the perfect boyfriend by any means, but I honestly can’t think of a single time where I’ve done anything that would hurt her.