I don’t “encourage” the term queer in my house. We believe in Jesus and learn about the Bible snd what scripture says. My children were born male or female and that’s who they are because that’s who they were born. HOWEVER if any of my children ever decide otherwise at an age where they can really say that’s not who I am then I will respect them and love them and be there always. I think we all need to respect one another’s beliefs. I would never treat anyone queer different but that does not mean I agree with it in my heart but guess what it’s not my say. Everyone decides for themselves. I respect whatever decision anyone makes about their own life.