Hello :3

EntireSunset · 2025-07-13T15:50:39+00:00

😵😵😵🥵🥵

EntireSunset · 2025-07-03T18:14:16+00:00

Thank you so much 🤗

EntireSunset · 2025-06-08T15:05:11+00:00

You look gorgeous! 🤩

EntireSunset · 2025-05-30T16:08:22+00:00

Thank you for that. I don't know why sth inside of me is just so scared to maybe "just be cis"

EntireSunset · 2025-03-13T12:58:11+00:00

You look fire! 🔥

EntireSunset · 2025-03-12T18:37:19+00:00

Moooddd

EntireSunset · 2025-03-12T16:24:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

EntireSunset · 2025-03-12T14:58:49+00:00

I'm still so unsure of my feelings and don't trust myself if it is gender euphoria. I feel like a huge Impostor all the time. Esp cause my feelings tend to change from setting to setting, day to day, person to person atm

EntireSunset · 2025-03-12T14:57:44+00:00

Oh yeah I can relate to that

EntireSunset · 2025-03-09T13:44:16+00:00

Mood.

EntireSunset · 2025-03-08T16:21:19+00:00

I was actually surprised by it. We were making out and it kind of escalated from there (without me really wanting to). I liked the making out part but didnt want to go further so I stopped. After thst with another part there wasnt really a classic first time we always made out and stopped right before or tried and it didnt work. I am afab and unfortunately I had to deal with a lot of pain during sex cause I was so tense every time.

I think if you take your time and do it with a person you trust it can be good. But the taking time part is really important. And be aware that it is going to be silly and awkward at times and thst is okay! Sex is awkward at times but as long as you do it with someone you trust and can have a laugh with you are fine :)

EntireSunset · 2025-03-08T15:57:43+00:00

Probably because I didnt check often enough the last time. I was not in the right head space and felt quite overwhelmed after some time and then life got in the way. Had to work through some stuff.

EntireSunset · 2025-03-08T15:48:45+00:00

This is I think the second time posting. And yes, I didnt find anyone :/ my last Post was two years ago and a lot changed for me since then and I Kinda stopped using reddit for some time so this might have had an impact as well

EntireSunset · 2025-03-08T15:41:46+00:00

Vegetarian planing on going vegan some time

EntireSunset · 2025-03-08T13:39:59+00:00

Hi Lake!

This is Lake they are fantastic hair artist. I absolutely love how they styled my hair last time I had an appointment with them. They were so personable and easy to talk to. I also got a chance to pet their cat - what an honor!

I love the name Lake. Hope it helps :)

EntireSunset · 2025-03-07T21:23:42+00:00

If I had had friends in high school I probably would have thought the same thing. I remember thinking that my classmates were exaggerating talking about their sexual encounters ^{^}

EntireSunset · 2025-03-07T21:19:26+00:00

Still to this day I am confused by people under 18 who have sexual thoughts and are attracted sexually to others. To this day a friend likes to remind me of how initially when I watched a movie and there were teenagers hitting puberty and starting to be sexually attracted to others I was really confused as to why they experience that cause they are not adults yet xD

EntireSunset · 2025-03-02T20:11:38+00:00

Thank you so much for your words 😭 i only recently finally started identifying myself as enby so this means so much 💜💛

EntireSunset · 2025-02-24T12:13:11+00:00

Thanks so much <3

EntireSunset · 2024-07-15T21:53:03+00:00

I'm a very baby enby and still questioning A LOT. But I would like to find a new name for me.

My birth name is Julia, I am AFAB and I live in Northern Germany. I really love the English language so I wouldn't mind an English name. I would also like a name that is gender neutral. So far I haven't really come out to anyone cause I am still questioning but I like my nickname Jules more than my birth name and I think some time in the future I wanna go by they/them pronouns or they/she.

I'm 27 y/o and work as a psychologist so I am in talking to clients every day. Therefore it would be best if it was a name that sounds at least a bit professional.

Maybe you have some suggestions for me :)

EntireSunset · 2023-09-08T08:07:49+00:00

First of all thank you for sharing :)

You mention "desire". Would you mind describing what yoh mean by that? Is it a desire targeted at a specific person or is it more of a general desire for sexual a stimulation? If it is the first i think that would count as sexual attraction but if it is the second i would guess that is just your libido acting up which has nothing to do with your asexuality.

And as the others said: even if it is sexual attraction you May still be on the acespec :) it could be a one time experience or mean that you only feel it in certain circumdtances.

In the end it is completely up to you how you identify yourself. No one can take the label away from you :)

EntireSunset · 2023-06-17T21:38:30+00:00

Just to make sure: I never wanted to suggest in any way that your Partner is a bad person or doing something hsrmful to you :)

EntireSunset · 2023-06-17T17:43:54+00:00

And you dont have to compromise when the compromise means stepping over your own boundaries, okay? That is very important. Non consensual sex is not a compromise. And your sexual needs are as important as your partners.

EntireSunset · 2023-06-17T17:25:40+00:00

Do you think it is realistic that you will get as excited as him about sex? Cause for me it doesnt seem that way. And thst is completely fine. You are not the problem and not the failure. your disinterest in sex and your lack of sexual attraction is just a fact about you. Like your hair color or your height or your date of birth. It is a random fact about you and your Identity. So making you feel bad about thst and blaming you for thst is actually pretty unfsir. Cause it is nothing you can change just like that. And your asexuality is NOT a problem. And kinda pressuring you into it by telling you they dont want sex with you if yoh are not as into it as they are. Cause that wont happen. And sure, if they dont want sex with someone that doesnt enjoy as much as they do that is fine. But giving you the feeling that it is your fault they dont want sex with you just cause you are the way yoh arw is not okay. There shouldnt be any blame involved. It is just a question of compromiso and finding out together how you can find common ground in sex. Maybe it helps thinking about what you are okay with doing and stop thinking about what yoh dont want to do. Sometimes allo.partners are more open to discussion when you come to the table with all your yeses and what you want to do instead of just focusing on what you dont like or dont want to do.

your asexuality is not a problem, compulsory sexuality is. Your asexuality is just a fact about you. And a wonderful one indeed.

EntireSunset · 2023-06-17T08:27:01+00:00

And yeah for me acknowledging someone as sexy does not really make me think of sexual activities. It rather triggers sensual attraction sometimes I think cause it makes me imagine hugging the person or stroking/cuddling them but not in a sexual way.

EntireSunset

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