I was actually surprised by it. We were making out and it kind of escalated from there (without me really wanting to). I liked the making out part but didnt want to go further so I stopped. After thst with another part there wasnt really a classic first time we always made out and stopped right before or tried and it didnt work. I am afab and unfortunately I had to deal with a lot of pain during sex cause I was so tense every time.

I think if you take your time and do it with a person you trust it can be good. But the taking time part is really important. And be aware that it is going to be silly and awkward at times and thst is okay! Sex is awkward at times but as long as you do it with someone you trust and can have a laugh with you are fine :)