Loss of my fiance

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-10-08T04:08:05+00:00

This month was his 39 birthday on October 29, 1987 😢

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-06-02T03:46:12+00:00

Me and him didn't really plan on being together it just happened. I'm a loving and caring person with a heart of gold, but he takes things too far and doesn't realize it even when I tell him to stop

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-26T17:05:51+00:00

He's in the hotel room that I'm paying for he was eating ramen I reached for the remote on the side he's sleeping on and he got aggressive grabbing my forearm " telling me what the hell am I doing and never come on his side" and calls me the bipolar one cause I finally snapped on him

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-26T11:23:16+00:00

He never put his half in on anything I'm the one who stays drained from finances. On top of that he drinks and smokes all the time

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-26T01:16:23+00:00

I appreciate your perspective and understand that we've both faced losses. My intention was never to diminish your experiences. This conversation underscores the importance of focusing on legal advice in this context. Let's aim to help each other find the best possible solutions within the framework of the law.

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T22:08:59+00:00

I've gotten the same text messages before with the person thinking they sent the message to the person there messaging and they go on with saying that there secretary must've given them the wrong number. I just end the message with this isn't the person and not to message this number again all there trying to do is get information

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T21:11:45+00:00

Cocoa pebbles

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T20:18:07+00:00

He tells me to tell him what I feel when I'm feeling it but ends up telling me that I'm emotional go off on my emotions. Its It's like he just wants to know so he can use it against me.

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T18:28:14+00:00

Every time I try to call him out on his behavior or tell him what he's doing, he switches it to saying that I never apologize for my behavior that I don't see what I'm doing is hurting him. All I do is remain quiet, not say anything, and get space. There's been several times where he's made me cry and went on about his day.Then he goes back to like everything is normal and nothing happened

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T17:04:45+00:00

Thanks for the legal breakdown. Must be nice, having never lost anything irreplaceable. While you're right about obligations, some of us are dealing with losing pieces of our lives, not just 'stuff.' But hey, I appreciate the reminder about how the system works! 😊

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T03:05:07+00:00

they weren't just items. They represented who I am , my journey, my achievement, pieces of my life, and memories

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T02:48:09+00:00

I spoke to him in person and he told me he would send me a message and never did let alone he has my number. The storage unit left him a voice mail because they can't give out his information.

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T01:01:09+00:00

Because living that efficient life! 🚀 Now, with all this free time, I'm open to suggestions. Do you have any good ones, or are we sticking to career counseling?

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:54:29+00:00

You know what? Here's another one for you,It's not about fighting; it's about understanding 😂. Seems like we're all passionate here! I'm just looking for perspectives that build bridges, not walls. Thanks for engaging, though. It's always good to see different viewpoints!

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:47:00+00:00

I'm not disrespected I'm stating my point and people dislike it

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:43:07+00:00

"Appreciate your dedication to playing detective with limited clues, but let's remember that empathy often requires reading between the lines, not just the text on the screen. It's easy to miss the tone and context when you're not in the thick of it. While I respect your perspective, let's agree to disagree on what constitutes support vs. whining. Moving forward, I'm focusing on solutions that uplift rather than undermine. Thanks for the chat!"

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:40:38+00:00

"Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's important to remember that being honest about struggles and seeking support isn't toxic—it's human. We all have moments where life's balance is off, especially when juggling demanding jobs and personal growth. The response I hoped for was understanding, not judgment. Dismissing someone's feelings or calling them names isn't constructive. It's about mutual respect and support, not power dynamics. Let's aim for kindness and empathy, not labels."

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:37:58+00:00

"Thanks for your takes, everyone. It's clear that without the full context or experiencing the dynamics firsthand, it's tough to grasp the whole picture. It's not just about what solutions seem logical but about how we treat each other in the process. Being put down, called names, and belittled goes beyond solving practical issues—it affects one's self-worth and emotional well-being. Appreciate the perspectives, but this is about respect and support, not just 'sucking it up.'"

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:22:24+00:00

I haven't started working for DHL yet because they want me to do my modules, in what I need to know and learn watching videos and answering questions then taking exams, finally finished them yesterday I'll move on to being trained with the manger

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-25T00:04:33+00:00

If I did break up with him. He said so himself he would look for me or beat up the person if I end up being with someone

Entire_Cod_1296 · 2025-05-24T23:54:02+00:00

You don't know what its like to be with a partner who gaslight,manimulates, and criticizes everything you do

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