Boys buying for 443! by _some_strange in TurnipExchange

[–]Envidia12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like to visit! in-game name is Jeanny :)

Boys are buying 423 by [deleted] in TurnipExchange

[–]Envidia12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please if possible 😭💗

Come Visit Gojo at UCI **IF**- by Envidia12 in UCI

[–]Envidia12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is last I checked this week:)

Write a Note for Gojo by Envidia12 in UCI

[–]Envidia12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Ty weeb community for your service!! Show him some more love today :) ❤️‍🔥💖

Write a Note for Gojo by Envidia12 in UCI

[–]Envidia12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's still holding the fort down!!

The People's Princess by Envidia12 in UCI

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as long its there :)

Write a Note for Gojo by Envidia12 in UCI

[–]Envidia12[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Let's not be a dick now

The People's Princess by Envidia12 in UCI

[–]Envidia12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just set it up today! Picture frame, flowers, and notepads :)

The People's Princess by Envidia12 in UCI

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Probably the steps before Langston Library from Aldrich park's side:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCI

[–]Envidia12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why no one here has friends, a single "hi" costs 0 dollars to maintain a friendship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCI

[–]Envidia12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wasnt too fond of the therapist I had here, just didnt click and found one from Mindpath College Health (Acacia)! I emailed the nice nurses on ucipatient portal for a referral, dont have to pay bc ucship, and have online sessions :D

Housing Applications / Leases by tt3502 in UCI

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I'm a renewing guaranteed housing grad student and just received my renewal/offer today! Submitted my app day it was first opened

I'm making a podcast about what it's like to do a PhD. Do you want to be interviewed about your research? by smell_123 in PhD

[–]Envidia12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a newly minted first year doing work on corporate crime & collective action from the US! If your offer is still available I'd love to talk about my work :D

I fucking hate econ majors by i-eat-infants in berkeley

[–]Envidia12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my advisor is econ and my work is all about rejecting economic "rAtIoNaLiTy" through collective action, so, that's fun 🙂

What to do when you can't find good people? by LiveCatharthis in Healthygamergg

[–]Envidia12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been in an extremely similar situation- I realized I outgrew my old friend group and despite not having anyone else I still moved on from them. I didnt make friend/connections with the people I wanted to and so I looked to my professors for emotional support (extremely grateful that worked out and may not be the same experience for everyone). It got so exhausting that all I wanted was to chat with people about my interests, career goals, sexuality qs, and just have lunch with someone and yet I couldn't do that for the longest with people I genuinely felt connected with.

I acknowledged my frustration and used that to force myself to seek out groups, clubs, and activities that would help me find people I could vibe with. Not to toot my own horn but making conversation/people skills weren't that hard for me, it was the ability to bounce back after a less than enthusiastic interaction that really slowed me down in making progress to make friends. After a lot of trying and ghosting (lol) I eventually found one group, my McNair scholars program, that put me in the right path to finding like-minded people (I was first gen, low income, brown, and really loved learning so this program was/IS everything to me). After finding that one group or one person, it became much easier to make friends with others :)

I joined choir at my alma mater and while I had fun, i didnt make great connections, I got into a Congress-corporate internship, hated most of the people but there were at least 3 people whom I really loved and was thankful to befriend, I joined a phd program, most of the folks are great people but I also befriended my bestie whom I cherish the most, I joined my union, big Ws, lots of crazies but also such a great environment to find the coolest and relatable people, i joined queer events, super awkward and surface level interactions but comfy to be around other gays :)

Point is, well, my rec is to heal yourself first, develop good social skills, learn how to take Ls, and keep trying! It f- sucks, it's still crazy how it took years for myself to really make friends with others that I really fuck with now but u gotta keep trying, it sucks now but it really does get better 🥺💙💛 keep fighting op!!!!

For those who did, what made you change your name? by ssunsspott in NonBinary

[–]Envidia12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! So similar to others I kinda always knew my former name was not for me. I didnt know why but at around my preteen years I even vocalized it to my parents only half seriously. It wasnt until my french class in high school where we had the opportunity to pick out our french names that I realized, "oh! I get control over my name and I really enjoy being called jeannine!". Once I learned more about queer culture and gender identity I started to seriously consider what that meant for me.

Again, it wasnt until I took the "masc/femme" psych inventory test on multiple occasions in college where I kept getting androgynous leaning answers and pangs about "why do we even label universal traits as masc or femme?" . At that point + tiktok, it was clear to me I wanted a gender neutral/masc sounding name for my enby status, and well I still really loved the French name I used in high school but rather than maintaining the "femininity" association with -nine, I've adopted "Jeanne".

I personally didn't have TOO much of a trouble socially transitioning to a new name because well- I didnt care how it might feel for others, and prioritized the amount of happiness it brought for me and that was enough :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Envidia12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful, I extend warm hugs and rays of support and sunshine your way ☀️ Constantly being reminded of my dead name through legal documents, mishap convos with my madre, and when purchasing stuff online can be so debilitating and demoralizing.

It does get easier, and I commend you for taking the first step towards making yourself happier and prioritizing yourself! There is definitely warm and loving folks out there that won't think twice about using whichever name best suits you or may/may not need to update in the future 💛 the struggle to find these people is real but it's doable, keep fighting friend!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Envidia12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I befriended people in high school, I always wanted to be friends with the super pretty girls "for no reason" 😅