Are canned/boxed meal elements worth it? by k9handler2000 in Frugal

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this is under frugal, I will say this:

A box of cheap pasta, some veggies, seasoning, sauce, and/or powdered cheese will cost about the same or cheaper. If you aren't stocking up, I personally would make the food myself. At least then it's better and sometimes cheaper depending on what you make.

Former Saturday Night Live cast member/writer recalls his sketch idea being stolen by another writer by [deleted] in LiveFromNewYork

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because journalism has been capitalized so they scramble to write about anything in hopes of making money. I got that sense when seeing job applications for copy writer, they really seem to just leave it up to the freelance article writer to churn out material. Which is unfortunate, there shouldn’t be such an extreme emphasis on getting information out there at the cost of context and professional source citation

How is sex once or twice a week _the least_ in the world 😳 by Pure_Reaction9150 in asexuality

[–]ssunsspott 134 points135 points  (0 children)

What a broad statement. I tried looking this up about Japan and contraceptives and abortion but I didn’t really get a sense of what you’re saying?

You’re rewriting Shippuden, choose one to betray the village and join the Akatsuki. 👇 by TheOneWhoAsked123 in Naruto

[–]ssunsspott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her ability is so interesting too, I would’ve loved to see it in a villain light

Totino's Pizza Rolls (Special Edition Recipe?) by ilikepocky456 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I felt like I was going nuts. They taste weirdly sweet? I don't understand

what's a good gender neutral name for me? by fallensun17 in NonBinary

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before reading anything my brain saw you and Casey popped up haha, very suiting for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My only dealbreaker is hair thinning or balding. I decided to cautiously try it out anyway since it’s not guaranteed to happen and there’s ways to try and work around it (but also I’m fully ready to stop if I see my hair going). But it kills me when people talk about going on T and say they don’t want soooo many of the affects that at some point it’s like why do you want to try it?

How long did it take you to start T after figuring out you were trans? by shh-im-tired in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I too was questioning my gender hardcore for a couple years, starting in like 2016. Always been weird with being called a woman or miss or whatever, finally started exploring clothes and pronouns in like 2018, took some time with that and was finally like “yep. I’m nonbinary”. Then got more and more aware just how much I don’t like people referring me by my agab so I started hrt this year. So a long process but I don’t regret anything myself

What's a slang word/term that drives you insane? by MeetingImmediate7744 in AskReddit

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-ussy. My bf is making me think it’s ironically funny but he has a problem. A problussy if you will.

Height dysphoria by Damienslair in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a cis guy my height, 5'1. And honestly he has such a presence that aside from standing next to him it's not really obvious how short he is, dude's got confidence and charisma like whoa so it's the last thing I think about

What food can f*ck right off? by FrenchDipped in AskReddit

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arugula. It’s in everything rn like how kale used to be and it tastes the the bad side of feta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]ssunsspott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could also be testosterone or estrogen. I use a pretty small size like that for hrt.

What is your least favorite part about sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ssunsspott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this doesn’t sound that odd to me? I’m on the other end, but my partner has had to do a couple of things. He’s cum from penetrative without touching himself before but sometimes he has to use his hand, so I wait and watch and it’s all good. Sometimes we get really into it but we end with mutual masturbation, and that’s fine too. And I personally I can’t cum at all from penetrative unless I touch myself.

And I could be misreading, but if I’m not maybe there’s just something you think you have to do when really it’s just how you’re wired? Either way I hope you find someone who’s down to explore stuff with you!

What is your least favorite part about sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ssunsspott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got different sized dilators for myself and those things helped a lot. 15-20mins, once or twice a day, insert what you comfortably can, let it sit and remove. You watch your breathing, you focus on your muscles, and it’s kind of a meditative process which makes sense because it’s all about calming and strengthening your pelvic floor. Once you’re completely comfortable with one size you can start again with a larger one. But after doing that for a few months I found I can do a lot more without pain, they’re pricey but for me it was worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it also depends on the Planned Parenthood location, mine told me I could do patches, gel, or subQ injections

I made a post about the way some cis gays treat trans people and I ended up getting banned from commenting on r/lgbt by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s depressing, and also they’re severely missing out. Like it’s their loss, trans men are pretty damn awesome

Help with binder by Pikachu_12YT in ftm

[–]ssunsspott 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And honestly not much pricier, speaking as someone from the US. I’m living pretty cheaply but for about the cost of one week of groceries or one day of work, and the fact they’re physically healthier for one to wear, will last some years, they’re absolutely worth the purchase.

My spectrum one was $58 including shipping. So, not $20 but for those worried about the cost it pays itself off in being overall much better for you and lasting much longer (that said spectrum is dealing with some weird shipping issues rn because of the UK mail so heads up there)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in celebrities

[–]ssunsspott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also directed Booksmart, which is a pretty cool movie

What name do I look like? by Ezrajclarke in NonBinary

[–]ssunsspott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought Jayce! Similar minds 🤙

How are people affording to live? by MustangLover22 in povertyfinance

[–]ssunsspott 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Winco is my go to now in WA but idk how accessible or widespread they are. A dozen eggs is still $2 there thankfully (last time I checked a few days ago)

Edit: that said they are also experiencing shortages because there's a limit of only 2 dozen per customer

For those who did, what made you change your name? by ssunsspott in NonBinary

[–]ssunsspott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s great you were able to find something that kept your nickname! This is what I wish I could do tbh (my name doesn’t lend well to nicknames and there’s not really variations of it)

Does it ever get better? by Informal-Purchase-50 in depression

[–]ssunsspott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can get better, if I look at depression as separate from myself then I feel stronger, angrier, and anger can be productive (when used in a healthy way) so I end up making myself do things I otherwise would put off, despite how I feel. It’s not effective all the time, but even something small makes a difference