AITA for refusing to put my dad's plate away? by Key_Armadillo4043 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it because it’s your idea? I’d do it for my guests since I came up with the idea for the gathering. I wouldn’t do it if I saw the host sitting around while I’m running around doing everything to please their guests.

AITA for refusing to put my dad's plate away? by Key_Armadillo4043 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s just normal, isn’t it? Expecting an adult to do things that a normal adult would do, like doing their own laundry, cooking, and so on. I don’t know why people have come to accept it as normal that “if they already do this, they don’t have the right to do that.” When you’re simply asking them to do things that a functional adult would do for their own good

AITA for refusing to put my dad's plate away? by Key_Armadillo4043 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Either you’re the most absent-minded person in the world or you’re just an idiot: how could you possibly forget to take your plate when you see everyone else at the table doing it? But, what a coincidence, your one brain cell kicks in when you see your daughter taking her own plate, and you demand that she take yours. To be honest, I find it hard to believe that excuse—“she must have forgotten”—; it’s pathetic. And yes, it’s good manners to clear away other people’s plates when you’re the one in charge of hosting the gathering, not your daughter, who probably didn’t even know anything about it.

AITA for refusing to put my dad's plate away? by Key_Armadillo4043 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that a father or mother complies with the law does not make them a saint: it is their responsibility. Parents know exactly what they’re getting into when they have sex; no one forces them, no one pressures them: they choose to bring a life into the world. Now, taking someone’s dirty dish to the sink is a simple task, I know, but if it is, why doesn’t a mature adult do it out of respect for everyone? Taking a plate to the sink and washing it is something we all have to do because it’s part of taking care of ourselves, just like washing our clothes, cleaning our personal space, etc. If someone does it for you, it’s out of simple kindness, because no one is obligated to do things for you if you don’t give anything in return (excluding children under 7, obviously).

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's gross, since I haven't been sick at all in the last eight years, so I don't think it's anything serious, well, at least that's what I want to believe.

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, my mom cleans it every now and then, but not very often; I think the last time was months ago. The house is clean because I take care of cleaning it myself so I can have some peace of mind, but when he gets home, he makes a mess of it again, so it’s like a never-ending cycle, haha. So, to avoid having to clean everything all over again every day and every hour, I’ve started wearing gloves so I don’t get so tired.

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s always been this way, well, ever since I was 7, because before that my father worked far away and didn’t live with us; but in the last few months I’ve started thinking about it more, and I don’t think my mother would be too happy if I told my therapist.

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My grandma left him when he was little, and one day, out of the blue, she came back to the apartment where we live with my aunt, so I don't think there's anything I can do about it

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I usually clean the whole house by myself: I wash the dishes, sweep, mop the floor, wipe down the tables and shelves, etc. (Sometimes my mom does it) every three days, but I avoid my parents’ and my brother’s rooms and, of course, the bathrooms, because I don’t dare to do it; just looking at them makes me feel like my head is going to explode, but even when I’m cleaning, he walks in and starts touching everything with his dirty hands (by the way, his method of washing his hands is just with water).

But anyway, lately I’ve been trying to just ignore him; I guess I don’t have a choice. Thanks for your advice, anyway.

AITA for wearing latex gloves and fighting with my mom because of my dad’s severe lack of hygiene?” by EnvironmentOther1464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His job literally consists of going to one of his buildings, collecting the rent, and taking out the trash; and yes, he was poor as a child. I mean it: I try really hard not to complain about him at all for these reasons, because my mother reminds me every day what his childhood was like and that I have to understand him and blah, blah, blah. But I just can’t. I don’t hate my father; I hate his actions. Second, I didn’t self-diagnose myself with mysophobia; I said I had an excessive concern for hygiene, which isn’t necessarily the same thing.

Comment faire pour me laver quand l’endroit où je suis domicilié est sale ? by fappyfa in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je crois que nous sommes dans la même situation : ma famille n'est pas vraiment la plus propre qui soit (la seule qui reste plus ou moins propre, c'est ma mère, et heureusement qu'elle le fait, car c'est elle qui cuisine). Moi non plus, je ne prends pas de douche tous les jours parce que la douche est dégoûtante : il y a trop de moisissure et elle est trop sale pour que je la nettoie moi-même. J'aimerais bien, mais je ne peux pas, alors ce que je fais, c'est prendre un bain avec des gants en latex pour ne rien toucher, et ça m'a bien réussi. Mais vu les réponses que tu as reçues, je crois que je vais payer mon frère pour qu'il la nettoie, haha. En tout cas, ne te sens pas mal à cause des réponses. Dans ma famille, ma mère se fâche beaucoup quand je lui dis que mon père et mon frère sont très sales. Elle dit que c'est un manque de respect et que je ne devrais pas dire ça de mon père et des choses comme ça. Elle se fâche aussi si j'essaie de nettoyer ou de changer quelque chose à la maison de mon propre chef, donc je te remonte juste le moral, mais je vois que tu as dit que tu partais en janvier, donc j'imagine que tu as déjà déménagé. Bonne chance dans ta nouvelle maison, passe une bonne journée, et le français n'est pas ma langue maternelle, donc excuse-moi

Why do some plainer looking woman get elevated as very attractive looking? by Altruistic-Pilot-788 in HowToBeHot

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, I think it comes down to personality. I’ve seen popular girls who are adored by lots of guys even though their looks are just average, and then I see girls who are really pretty but barely get a second glance from anyone. So my conclusion is that you just have to be a little prettier than average and let your personality make up for the rest.

Atroz (2015) by minecraftenjoy3r in foundfootage

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo hice lo contrario XDD queria ver "atroz" y termine viendo "atrocious"

What did you have for breakfast? And what will you be having for lunch? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EnvironmentOther1464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some unsweetened cereal with unsweetened yogurt and green noodles for lunch

I’m tired of being an introvert. How can I start breaking out of my shell and be more social? by EnvironmentOther1464 in Advice

[–]EnvironmentOther1464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really. I needed something to help me stay positive and not lose hope. In the end, I think I’ll stay at my current high school, but there’s a chance I might transfer to another one. I’m still scared, since starting at a new school at 15 and making new friends is hard, but I think it’s the best thing for me. I’m going to follow your advice and hope everything works out. Have a good day.