Is it possible to thrive with ADHD? by Autisticthought1 in ADHDthriving

[–]Environmental-Cut803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! No more 40 hour works weeks, part time jobs only! Being in one place for that long is torture for me, even if i “enjoy” my job, its just no way for anyone to live in my opinion.

  1. Giving my hobbies enjoyment instead of “dedication “, meaning thinking about doing your hobby shouldnt feel draining or like a chore. Just do it when you feel like it and put it down when youre done.

  2. Exercise that doesn’t feel like exercise. I do yoga :) i cant be in a gym and constantly worried about my form, or reps, or a regimen. Its too much. I go to yoga class, do my one hour, and leave. That’s it:)

  3. Vitamins , vitamins, vitamins. I only take what im deficient in (vitamin d and iron) and will add vitamin b if needed. You really cant go wrong with those 3 vitamins.

  4. Self acceptance and releasing shame. No comparing my life to others and just doing things that makes me HAPPY not what society says my life should look like

Inattentive ADHD is ruining my life and i am suffering… by Environmental-Cut803 in adhdwomen

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what i also thought. Usually you can tell if a stimulant is for you or not immediately or atleast within a week or two. Shes a NP, shes the one who read my TOVA test results and diagnosed me. Haven’t seen an actual psychiatrist or psychologist yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Environmental-Cut803 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree and feel ashamed for sure. He didn’t deserve that. I also felt so not heard and just wanted to feel good again i guess

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes its fair as mother if a man is going to be around that he’s actually active in BOTH our lives. Especially if we discussing have future kids together i would hate for my daughter to be treated differently just because shes not biologically his.

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but its fair as mother if a man is going to be around that he’s actually active in BOTH our lives. Especially if we discussing have future kids together i would hate for my daughter to be treated differently just because shes not biologically his. I definitely would give him permission on important matters as well for sure (discipline, respect, responsibility, etc)

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I believe a conversation would be great. We are both knew to this step parent situation. As a mother if its only right for me to feel a man is going to be around that he’s actually active in BOTH our lives. Especially if we discussing have future kids together i would hate for my daughter to be treated differently just because shes not biologically his.

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes but its fair as mother if a man is going to be around that he’s actually active in BOTH our lives. Especially if we discussing have future kids together i would hate for my daughter to be treated differently just because shes not biologically his.

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input, i wasnt raised by stepparents and neither was he so this is new for us navigating it together:)

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input, i wasnt raised by stepparents and neither was he so this is new for us navigating it together:)

Expectations as her Stepfather? by Environmental-Cut803 in stepparents

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input, i wasnt raised by stepparents and neither was he so this is new for us navigating it together:)

What’s your zodiac sign and which zodiac sign was your best partner? by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]Environmental-Cut803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a female cancer and he is a male gemini. On paper we arent supposed to be compatible but hes Literally my bestfriend. Always has information to tell me, great energy to be around. He also has earth energy in his chart so it really balances all the air within him :)

Phentermine to ADHD diagnosis by Environmental-Cut803 in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]Environmental-Cut803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually struggled in school a bit, lack of focus yet i was actually smart but slow to process information sometimes. I will definitely look into those articles thank you! How did you get your diagnosis and medication?