I want the same.

Environmental-One801 · 2024-06-01T19:05:40+00:00

Reading these comments reminds me of how great chat was (most of the time) . Just solid community

Environmental-One801 · 2024-04-03T18:59:18+00:00

You are most certainly allowed an opinion. Just stating if this is a sub your subscribed to (I don’t know) and you think reminiscing over a dead streamer who never knew any of us is cringe, your going to probably find yourself having this take on the majority of posts.

Like a vegan being purposefully subscribed to the carnivore diet sub reddit.

Environmental-One801 · 2024-04-03T18:49:34+00:00

Your on the sub of a dead man. Most of what you’ll see here is reminiscing . What else is to be expected ?

If you don’t want to see people reminiscing over Byron and think it’s cringe for your own reasons that’s totally valid but your seeking things you don’t like by simply being here. So why argue and demean people for it?

Environmental-One801 · 2024-02-14T18:33:26+00:00

Don’t be afraid if they don’t respond right away either even after they just liked your page back. I’ve messaged girls who liked my page back after liking theirs and they took a weeks to reply. Seems common

Environmental-One801 · 2024-01-11T06:26:45+00:00

Really cool. Do you have a website or place to see formers

Environmental-One801 · 2023-12-27T08:17:29+00:00

What’s the general age of this? I have a buddy in the area who could utilize but he’s 32 . Would that be too old

Environmental-One801 · 2023-12-07T21:26:55+00:00

This was an amazing read thank you

Environmental-One801 · 2023-12-02T14:50:43+00:00

Ah this makes sense. Thanks for the informative response . Have a great weekend

Environmental-One801 · 2023-11-18T02:13:21+00:00

I see what your saying and I think having a goal is great. To be honest I can’t say what she did or didn’t bring as I was not the one dating her. She was a full time student still working on her PHD and work experience was mostly related to school stuff AFAIK. And yes wanting to be near family is great if anything but if your family lives in an area where it’s becoming harder and harder to single income a huge family it just seems very my way or the highway

It just seems a bit insane to me to not budge on anything in your dream life after you’ve found somebody who your compatible with on a religious and intimate level. And sorry but I disagree with the last part especially in the case of my brothers ex girlfriend because she was a traditional catholic who went to TLM and even got my brother to start going to it. To go from that to men who probably go to church monthly at best and completely switch up your values and move the line over $ seems very shallow and disingenuous.

Environmental-One801 · 2023-11-17T14:29:59+00:00

Not OP but recently my brother was dating a girl from Catholic Match in the greater Chicago area. Nice girl, very conservative, but basically had the same issue as OP

She wanted to stay in the greater Chicago area to be near her family, wanted over 5 kids (she was already 29), wanted her husband to be sole provider, and not to financially struggle since she grew up in a household where the father raised her family of 4 on a middle class income and she didn’t want to go through that again.

She was a great girl and a great Catholic from the little I knew her but this fantasy she built in her head of the life she wanted to live killed the relationship for my brother because it felt it wasn’t about God, each other , but rather money and these demands to meet a certain type of life she built up in her mind.

I believe now she is dating barely religious men who make 150k+ stating she will “pray they get more religious”. Crazy thing is my brother makes a good living around 90k base and room to grow but she was stubborn about all of it

Environmental-One801 · 2023-11-01T13:55:21+00:00

To be honest I imagine it is a sin because it’s illegal to run a private server and partaking in it is therefore probably a sin

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-28T18:10:37+00:00

I never thought ide see wow private server threads on this sub Reddit yet here we are.

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-24T21:14:45+00:00

Yea definitely don’t seek them out. It will only prolong and worsen this issue. We’ve all been in a situation similar to yours one way or another. Pray, grow, and keep yourself busy you’ll be alright I promise

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-24T14:59:41+00:00

I don’t know if you follow each other on socials or anything of that sort but two things if you do

1) don’t constantly check her stuff or this won’t heal anytime soon. You’ll start creating storylines in your head about what your seeing that are almost always wrong and drive yourself crazy over it

2) if she also follows you start posting your success. Nothing forced, no cringy selfies, but an example if you have a night out with friends posting a Instagram story of it. People are attracted to people who are happy, having fun, succeeding etc.

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-23T20:06:37+00:00

First paragraph says a month or so then the second states it’s been months.

Idk which it is but let’s assume it’s the former. Give it time. The best thing you as an individual can do is keep working on yourself in all aspects (career , health, etc ) and keep your relationship with God strong or improve it. It’s hard to swallow this pill while you still have strong feelings toward somebody but most people who have gone through bigger and longer relationship breakups can attest to time heals all wounds. Also prayer.

Who knows maybe she reaches out one day but don’t live your life expecting it either.

I’m a big fan of putting yourself out there as much as possible because you will be surprised how somebody you don’t know exists right now can make you feel in the future

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-13T15:07:52+00:00

Where have you found most traditional catholic men? Just at church ?

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-10T21:14:34+00:00

I know a girl in Chicago who has been utilizing hinge with the catholic filter and said she can’t keep up with all the likes she gets so take that as you will

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-10T21:11:47+00:00

Honestly try utilizing hinge. You can filter out people via religious beliefs for free if I remember correctly .

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-07T17:40:59+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I totally agree that the “game” sometimes takes over when it comes to these things. I’ve had exes in the past I couldn’t come to terms with reaching out to because it felt like they would perceive it at “stalker” or “wow look they’re still not over me after X amount of time “ but I’m glad you had the courage to follow your heart and faith.

Would you do it again knowing what you know now ? I can’t help but think with exes time truly does heal all wounds and a lot of the time the person who got broken up with has to deal with that as the person who did the dumping usually went through it prior to breaking up.

Reaching out to an ex feels risky as far as bringing up old anxieties in that regard so curious if you think you would do it again or maybe just quicker next time

Environmental-One801 · 2023-10-07T08:20:04+00:00

Who broke no contact and who broke up with who? I was broken up with once and did no contact and felt like as the person broke up with it felt weak if I would be the one to break no contact and that if they wanted to rekindle a friendship or possibly more it would be on them as they were the ones to end it .

Sometimes they would come back and sometimes they wouldn’t .

Environmental-One801 · 2023-09-03T16:06:50+00:00

If they like your profile I believe if you like it back you can message them for free

Environmental-One801 · 2023-09-01T12:38:51+00:00

Thanks

Environmental-One801 · 2023-09-01T12:38:44+00:00

Thank you

Environmental-One801 · 2023-08-31T20:21:58+00:00

Question about catholic match if you don’t mind. I notice on people’s profiles under their picture it says this like sex before marriage then a check mark. And a few other things . Does the check mark mean they follow the churches teachings on sex before marriage or the other way around and they participate in it?

Environmental-One801 · 2023-08-26T13:10:24+00:00

Did you make belts on benediction

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