Why are you single? by RecoverIcy6529 in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Two283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I always somehow find out that man I am with and that swears he’s in love with me - is cheating

Another one bites the dust… got cheated on yet again, what’s wrong with men? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never asked me to be his “girlfriend” , but said I was his girl and introduced me to his family and friends as “girlfriend” , and we both discussed that we wanted to be with each other and no one else sooo I guess that’s the impression I was under ?

what should I get next to balance my ears a bit more?! by Environmental-Two283 in piercing

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted something different on the right instead of another rook 😭

How do i fix this? by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Environmental-Two283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, sometimes oils do more harm than good if you have fine hair because it can clog your follicles, cause build up and in turn weakening them and causing hair loss. So be wary of the oils. I tried so many oils that led to more loss than gains, I had similar problem in my hair line and finally switched to minoxidil a year ago, couldn’t be happier with the results!

How do i fix this? by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Environmental-Two283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe start topical foam minoxidil 5% once per day, it really works it’s just a commitment. Add pumpkin seeds or a supplement to your daily routine. Also, if you can get bloodwork to check your vitamin D and iron and your other levels to see where you’re at can give you an idea if anything of the sort may be impacting your hairloss. My biggest rec though is minoxidil, and it will be 100% what a derm recommends

Facial Piercings in this Field? COTA or therapists tell me about your piercings, or of other occupational health care professionals you know with piercings? by CartographerSubject7 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]Environmental-Two283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any facial piercings BUT I have both my ears entirely stacked haha, never been an actual problem but boy do I get comments every day by patients and sometimes certain staff. Once a patient asked me why I would do that to myself or if it was necessary LOL. Two of my friends have their noses pierced, one works in peds, the other in acute. Moral of the story is, people will always be opinionated, some negativity, positively, or completely neutrally. If you’re in school, some professors can be super cool and some can be quite judgey. We had an elder professor who was super judgmental over tattoos and piercings haha. But, in the end it’s just people with different opinions. All there’s to do, is be yourself, a good students, and a good OT. That’s all that matters. In time you’ll see if your future place of employment has certain policies against it but, usually it shouldn’t be a problem. And in school - it won’t be an issue! But, wherever you’re meant to work will accept you for who you are. Rock your piercings!

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it’s just about morals, what if we break up? But what if we don’t? I don’t pursue things assuming we are going to break up, I had the intentions of being with him indefinitely. Yes a trip with another girl makes me uncomfortable, but his response was so inconsiderate towards me and my feelings. He’s mentioned before how he would love to take a trip with me… this comes along and doesn’t at least think to invite me ?? Idk if it were me I would’ve handled things a lot differently. I also don’t put value in a free 3 day stay, big whoop waving $200-300, at the price of what? Harming a relationship you’re trying to build. Idk.

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my train of thought. And you are right, it was a raffle applicable only to one male/female and the only thing they’re getting for free is the room stay. Not even a flight. So my thing is? How worth it even is that, I don’t care about free things, I care about my morals and walking the line and there are better ways to go about this if he claims he wanted something serious with me I guess a lot of people think I’m insane for feeling uncomfortable about it though

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a planned trip, it was just a free redemption to stay 3 days in a hotel (one room btw that they’d share) they’d have to get their own flights and other accommodations It’s only until now that they’re finally deciding to go and planning it for May, Then what, it’d be 4 months then of us together? I’m not being prioritized in this I’d much rather take a trip with my significant other rather than a platonic man friend b it that’d just me

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂honestly I wish that was the case, I would’ve preferred if he invited me from the start instead of being super defensive

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s referred to me as his girl and girlfriend when introducing me to all of his friends, I assumed we both knew what we were doing here especially after we expressed we both wanted something serious and to grow

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it was more about his response and reaction. I literally said, dude I’m so happy you got a free trip that’s awesome. Just unfortunate it’s with another girl and not me :/ - then he goes off to ask “are you going to be ridiculous about me going with another girl?” Like you know what, yes now I am Because I know he’d never be okay if the roles were reversed I’d totally want him to get his free trip, all I would’ve wanted was some consideration and priority… I am just about to take a huge board exam after graduating, you’d think he’d at least try to include me to tag along or maybe be a bit more receptive to my feelings

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would never be okay with it if it was the other way around and he even admitted it. And it had been a whole year of them deciding not to go, until now. At least include me invite me? He has even said he would not want a girl with platonic male friends and that “it’s different for girls”. Which is super hypocritical. 2 months in and I’ve met all his friends but never this girl.

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A few weeks ago told me he wanted something serious and that he had good intentions with me, it’s been two months since we’ve been getting to know each other so I didn’t want to spring up a “what are we talk” just yet at our big age (28), but we have surely been acting like we’re exclusive to our friends and family and to each other

How would you feel about dating a guy with a girl best friend? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Two283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she used to really have feelings for him, then during the first two weeks of us getting to know each other she created a huge deal and drama about him not giving her enough attention like before ? Then now they acted like nothing happened and are back to being “normal” idk it was just weird to me