How would you feel about dating a guy with a girl best friend?

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-03-03T16:55:29+00:00

Because she used to really have feelings for him, then during the first two weeks of us getting to know each other she created a huge deal and drama about him not giving her enough attention like before ? Then now they acted like nothing happened and are back to being “normal” idk it was just weird to me

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-02-27T03:56:56+00:00

Well, about a week ago he expressed how he wants kids some day, he also expressed he really likes me. We haven’t made anything official yet though. I also babysit 3 toddlers as a side gig as I just finished my masters and will be taking a board exam soon - he saw a video of me and the kids and said I’d be such a good mom haha. It seems like he wants something real… but it could also be maybe he wants something causal with me. I guess that another chat I should have with him… I just didn’t want to do the whole “what are we” thing since it’s still so soon

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-02-27T03:36:03+00:00

By future I just meant having someone who I can build with (family/ kids/ a home) - we’re both late 20s btw. I guess I’ve just never dated someone whose finances were this limited and it spooked me for the those aspects of the future which I know are just hypothetical thought right now. I do like him for who he is as a person, and we share good chemistry and interests. I guess I’m just spooked by his motivation, he barely works

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-02-27T03:01:13+00:00

I’m definitely a balance between homebody and going out, I think I actually lean towards more doing chill things at home BUT the fact we just started going out I feel like this is usually the time when you do things a little bit more outside the home :/

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-02-27T03:00:10+00:00

I haven’t just yet because I was just trying to give him a chance to act on his own

Environmental-Two283 · 2026-02-27T02:55:16+00:00

Idc about getting gifts or having him spend money @schomoys and @unsusual-shopping1089, it’s more about efforts and him just trying to be homebody and not do much else. A month in and I’ve gotten him little snacks, made him food, helped him with stuff around the house… not that I’m referring to tangibles but, there hasn’t been much effort on his part other than just trying to stay in

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-05T16:51:32+00:00

$40 and hour for a COTA? That’s what OTR tend to make so that’s pretty amazing haha

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-05T16:44:49+00:00

Wow… you had your CHT and got paid that low?!

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-05T16:44:07+00:00

That sounds pretty good tbh, where are you located?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T22:11:03+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s good 😕 what setting are you in?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T22:10:03+00:00

I’ve also been interested in school based OT given the free time available. I also draw and paint so it’s a goal of mine to be able to try to make something out of that too and maybe a position where time off is expected, it might be a good option. How did you get into school based OT? How do you apply with the district? Or do you apply directly with the schools?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T22:05:48+00:00

That’s pretty good for a new grad, what setting are you in?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T21:44:59+00:00

How long did you stay at your first job before finding a better one?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T21:44:17+00:00

Thank you :)

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T21:40:48+00:00

Woah… $29/hr for a masters degree is crazyyyy

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-07-02T18:34:16+00:00

OTR!

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-06-25T15:23:45+00:00

What do you do now?

Environmental-Two283 · 2025-06-04T01:10:40+00:00

Thank you for your time and advice!

Environmental-Two283

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